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Jack, okay. Too many awkward moments to go up with a bang. It's okay. Good evening everyone. I hope you are all in good health.

One or two hours later, forget about a little bit of the blue mark that hasn't been repaid. Forget about it for a while. This theme is a bit heavy when I'm trusted to talk about knowing oneself, knowing oneself. In every theme, it's easiest for us to have a analysis knife. It's easiest to take from what is called iterative communication.

Why, how, when, where, 5W1H, and so on. My record is not more than 15 minutes. If I talk from all sides, I can finish it. So I want to take only one side first. I think this is the most interesting. About knowing yourself, about knowing yourself. I want to take from one angle, why.

I chose to take it from one angle, one of which is inspired by Nietzsche, if I'm not mistaken. Markov also wrote, but Nietzsche wrote it first. "He who knows why to live can bear anyhow." He who knows why can endure everything.

It's not easy to get to know yourself. Because this is a very vague theme. What is self? It's not finished. What is getting to know? It's not finished. It's not easy. So I will start from why we get to know ourselves. It's the sound of a thud in the head that bothers me every night.

With overthinking and so on. We say, "Why?" Because I have been troubled with that sentence since I was a child. "Come on, get to know yourself." I happened to come from the background of Islam. There is a very famous saying, which is called, "Man arufa nafsahu, fakat arufa rubahu." "Whoever knows himself knows his God." Wow, scary.

If you know God, you must know yourself. How are you? Have you ever run into anything? And what do you do? Why is it mandatory? That's why I don't accept "why". I will break down "why" into three aspects. So that it won't take long to talk. Not more than 15 minutes is enough. First, with what is human. Then how human works. How humans work with the interaction with nature. And then what is the use of knowing yourself.

from these three steps to answer why we need to know ourselves. First, what is human? I don't want to take a personal definition. If it's a personal definition, it will be completely different. I want to take a universal definition. Human is an expression of limitation. We are limited. Very, very limited. You can't just scratch your own head. That's why the sufferers of Cacatuna Asmara

half dead looking for his partner so that he can be correctly corrected. It's very limiting. We've been through a few times today, I don't remember. Means, with that limitation, we have to be effective.

using limitations. There are many limitations within ourselves. Limitations of knowledge, physical limitations, limitations of the mind, limitations of time, limitations of energy, limitations of connection, limitations of money, limitations of whatever. Limitations. We work on limitations. Human is essentially a limitation. This limitation goes into the second point. This limitation is how humans work. With this limitation, humans work in the world.

Working is not a job, right? I mean interacting with one another in the world. There is a kind of illogical circular logic. The world is so big, how can we be effective in the world with such a limited world? That's why humans have what is called world view. We try to capture what is in the world and create a model in our heads.

This model makes us be able to use limitations more effectively. The model in the head. For example, you see a goat being hit by a motorbike and the goat dies, you're not surprised. When you see a goat flying suddenly, you immediately take a TikTok and video it, and share it. Why? Because this is out of the world model that we have. We will be attracted to something that comes out of the world model that we have. It means we

have a world's captcha that we can control but we don't realize that we can control it. Do you understand what I mean? We have a world's captcha, put it in our head, we work using that model to work in the world. To know yourself is one of the most important things. To know the world model. Because the world model that we take is from small we take it randomly.

I have said that you learn from your parents, neighbors, satpam, anyone, we take their knowledge and build an understanding house even though it is a reot house. We use that to understand the world.

That's what we call the world model of thought, the top part of the human being. Because the one who thinks is the self, the identity. Inside the self, there is always a memory underneath it. Because the only thing that can make you is a collection of memories. A simple question, if you were asked, who are you? What's the answer? Someone answered, I'm a musician. I'm proud to ask your job, who are you?

"I am my father's son." "I'm not asking who your father is." "I am... a sissy." That's a desperate answer because he doesn't know who he is. This is a limitation that goes on automatically. Even he doesn't know when the world is not in line with what's in his head. What's wrong is the world, not his head. Why? Because he is not able to recognize himself and change what's inside him.

Let's go to the third point, I'm already running out of time. What is the use of knowing yourself? The surface, the world model, knowing yourself, is like when we use all the tools in the world. If we know how to use the tools, we will use it effectively, very effectively. If your world model is right, you will work, find success, find a girlfriend, find anything.

will be easier. It doesn't always work out, of course, because there are factors outside that we can't control. But there are factors that we control in our self, namely the world model. The world model is the most superficial output of what is called self. Because finding yourself, knowing yourself is not easy. 9 minutes, okay. Because finding yourself is very, very difficult. What is self? Difficult. Have you found it or not? Where is the line? Difficult.

You see your Instagram status two years ago, you must be laughing by yourself. That's you, but not the current one. That's the point. Why? To know yourself, the non-statistic self must be realized. The non-statistic self, the collection of various memories, that makes a human work based on a certain world model to be able to navigate himself in the world.

Sometimes humans can't differentiate which is ideal, which is the real world, which is the world inside their heads. That's what makes them so extraordinary. Maybe if young people today are overthinking, depressed, anxiety, it's an effect because they don't know themselves and their world model. If we track ourselves, it's a bit simple. Depression is the person who lived in the past. Anxiety is the person who lives in the future.

If you live your life today, there is no chance for depression or anxiety. Because this limitation, which is currently running, will see many opportunities that can be done with excitement. Even if you are not answered by the VA, check 2, go through status. Status can't go through social media. If you can't find a friend to contact him,

This is not about success or failure. Let's test your world model. Until you have a clear definition that he doesn't like you. Definitive. It's clear. I'm not talking about your suffering. We all have experienced that suffering. But the point is to know yourself. Is to know a limitation.

who is called human who has imperfect way of thinking who tries to capture the world and he has dreams to use himself as much as possible for the purpose that he hopes for if you ever have a broken hearted friend you will be an amazing love doctor just like that, it's easy, don't be confused you have ever felt it, but if you are broken hearted

If you're being treated like that by your friend, you'll want to scratch their face. You don't feel good, you talk so easily. It hurts your heart. Sometimes the hardest part of knowing yourself is because we don't have a distance with ourselves. There are two tools in ourselves that live together. Thor, who is working based on his worldview. And the blood vessel that can change the worldview in his head.

We rarely know the protagonist, we only know the actor. So we can't change our own perspective and we are influenced by the actor. Because it's a script that can't be changed by itself. The important thing is to know yourself. The important thing is to know those two points. That is, we can maximize the limits that are in this journey. The simplest example. If you were asked, why are you easy to give advice to others? Because there is a distance.

Why can you laugh at yourself in the post two years ago? Because there is a distance. This is one of the worldviews that you have to see that the world is full of paradoxes. To know yourself, you must be able to have a distance to yourself. Why? To experience the fullness of the world, to be able to embrace the world with a limit that cries if not repaid by the world's A. When I was

"Can I?" "Yes, you can." "One hour, please." Why? So, we've reached the last point. Why? Because when we can control ourselves, we can't control the world. What we can control is ourselves. Maybe those who have read Stoic, simple, Kierkegaard, even Diogenes.

What he cares about is himself. Because there are two things that happen in life. There is an opportunity and there is a preparation. The opportunity cannot be controlled by us at all. But the preparation can be controlled. It means there are two worlds that are working together within the human being. There is the physical world and there is the natural world. Eh, the world of reason. The physical world and the world of reason. The physical world we live together. The world of reason is pure within you.

If you're stressed, it means you're letting people into your heart. If you're annoyed when people say something, for example, there's someone here who's a pecek, admit it. When you're told to be a pecek, are you ever angry?

Wow, everyone is already old, it's amazing. It's scary, it's scary. I want to say it worse, it's not good, there's a recording, sir. For example, let's say it's the simplest. Hey, sir, sir. We're a bit, ouch, I'm old, but there's a little bit of a sarcasm. Why did you say that? The actor is normal to feel himself hurt and have an expression of emotion. What are you doing? You told me, sir.

If we actually count, is it really a pese? It's really a pese. I'm not telling you, I'm telling you the facts. If that's the case, we'll get more heartache. But is our heartache warranted? I mean, can our heart argue that we have the right to heartache? There is a belief system that is rooted in you that we don't handle well. You are said to be

Feeling hurt when you are told to pee, it's because you have confidence that peeing is bad, and swimming is good. So automatically the worldview when you are told to pee, you are equated with bad. You change a little, peeing and swimming are not good or bad. If swimming is the best, it means elephant is the best, horse is the best.

No, this is a matter of difference. Next time, the actor will not be angry when he says, "Pesek" He will look for a beautiful answer. "Pesek kamu" "Heh, I don't need oxygen" For example, like that. Means, he can have full control over himself because he knows himself. That's right. As the last word, knowing yourself is not simple.

This is about the "Pesek" . It's easy to say, because we believe that "Pesek" is bad and "Mansung" is good. Now I will ask you a little about other things. When you are shouted at by people, "Oi, bad words!" No, don't use bad words. Just shout it out. "Oi!" Is there an emotion? There is an emotion, to be honest. Why?

What is your concept of screaming? Diagex? It's not in your head memory. It's in your DNA memory. Why? Because you see all the animals. When an animal screams, it indicates that there is an evil coming. There is a threat coming. When you are screamed, the one who is angry is not your brain. But your other memories are awakened. I'm not considered an evil. That's why I'm offended. Recognizing oneself has many layers.

Where do we want to use our point of view? There is Vedic, there is Yogic, there is Islam, there is Javanese. But the point is, it's all theories to guide you, to get to know yourself, which is the point so that you can effectively use limitations. In the end, it doesn't even matter if you say, what is it called? Linkin Park. Eh, you guys haven't been born yet, Linkin Park. Get out.

In the end, we are all limited, we are all limited to make life fun by knowing yourself, you know exactly where you want to run, not you become hurt, what is the Indonesian word for hurt? You are not the one who is being hindered, you become your own hindrance and there is no higher freedom than that to reach the highest freedom, to reach the success you want.

know the world inside your head, know yourself, so that you can control the world outside of you. Thank you.