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My dear viewer, I know that your life is very harsh. And because it is harsh, the options you have in life are very few. And I know that you want to change your circumstances and change your life and succeed in it. And because I knew how you can change your life in the worst circumstances, I made a content for you this video with my help. And in it, I will teach you how to change your life and change the circumstances of your life despite its harshness. And this is a real and tried and true talk. And not only that, I will prove it to you

I also want to tell you that success is a choice and happiness and sadness are choices and you choose to use this habit. The first habit, the strongest habit, the greatest habit of the book of the seven habits for the most active people, the book that will change your life, for the great author Stephen Richard Covey in this video, prepare the best cup of coffee or prepare the tea that you like or your favorite drink

And focus with me because this video in my opinion is the most powerful video I can explain in the channel at all. And let's continue. This habit is very strong, it's written in books. Imagine books. And there are courses that cost 10,000 riyals for just 5 days or 3 days only. To teach you how to practice this habit. The price of the course didn't reach that much unless they knew that this habit is strong. Strong. And if it's not strong, it's not what Stephen Covey explained in this book.

You don't need to read books or attend classes. I explained everything in this video. It's a good and sufficient explanation. You'll be impressed. Peace be upon you. Welcome, my friend who's a subscriber to the channel "DopamikaVeen". Where coffee, music and books are available. I'm your brother, Naser Al-Aqeel. If you're new to this channel, I read books and give you its benefits. If you want to take the benefits of reading without reading, subscribe to the channel.

On July 14, 2020, I uploaded an episode on Instagram that included my explanation of the book "The Rich Father and the Poor Father" In it, I said that we are in the 21st century, anyone can become rich and sit in the room as long as he has a phone and internet Anyone today in the 21st century can make his own fortune as long as he has a phone and internet

A friend of mine came to me and said, of course this friend is Syrian, he said, "Naser, I heard you say in the video, make your own chance, how can I make my own chance when I'm a refugee?" He said, "If you don't know what a refugee means, let me explain to you. A refugee means a person who left the city and lives in a tent. And the people who live with me in this tent, they just want to live their lives naturally. This is the most they wish for.

Please teach me how to make my time in these circumstances. And before I tell you what I replied to him, I would like to thank him from the bottom of my heart for allowing me to share his story with you.

Before I answer him, I had a thousand answers in my mind. I know many things that can make a change in his life in these circumstances. The law of attraction, the power of the inner mind, the power of choice, and many other things. Among all these things, I chose to explain to him this habit. I said, listen to me, the advice I will give you will change your life by 99% despite your circumstances. And I am confident of this, God willing.

I said, first I will explain it to you in a simple way, then I will give you an example. I said, the circumstances around us are two types. Circumstances that we can't control and that are out of our control, like you are now a refugee. This thing is not in your hands to change it completely, unfortunately. And poverty, and chronic illness, and physical disability, or disability, any kind of circumstances that a person can't control.

And the second type of circumstances are the ones that humans can control and control themselves through. Including education, self-development, physical strength, learning crafts and many more. So if you want to make your life an opportunity despite these circumstances, you must focus on the circumstances that you can control. And from these circumstances you will be able to make a difference in your life. Let me give you an example. Imagine that you are a person who can't speak English.

Excellent? And I decided to learn it, and education is one of the conditions that you can control. And in the 21st century, you will open your phone and go to YouTube, and you will learn the English language to the level of perfection. And without a doubt. And as for the English language, my friend, I will upload a series in which I will explain the English language. A very amazing explanation, God willing. I will explain it from the letter to the letter. I mean from A to Z. So I advise you to subscribe, my friend, and let's go back to the important example.

And after I learned the English language and mastered it I decided to take advantage of this initiative and explain the English language on Instagram or YouTube or any platform from social media platforms or from your phone you can do this and let's assume you are tired

and put a lot of effort into making this content and it formed a very strong community base after reaching this stage it will get thousands or hundreds of thousands of dollars a month I swear this is known by God Today on YouTube people

They will be able to make a difference in your life despite the difficult circumstances you are living in. If you focused on the circumstances you can control, and then said to yourself, I am confident.

You are confident that you will change your life. Do you know why? Because you didn't sit quietly and accept the circumstances you live in. And you spent your whole life thinking about this and that and the circumstances and the situation. You are interested and still interested in changing your life. And that's why you came to me and asked me how you can make your chance. And by the will of God, only in this way you can change your whole life. Focus on the circumstances you can control and change them and you will change your life.

This is the first of the seven habits, my friend, and Stephen Covey called it "Be an initiative" Let me tell you what the word initiative means. Of course, my friend, the viewer, unfortunately, did not like the Arabic translation of the word by word. It does not give you a definition. For example, they tell you that initiative means to accelerate, and initiative is to accelerate an initiative, which means to accelerate an initiative. What does the word "accelerate" mean? It means "the initiative" and you can get into this conversation.

So that's why, my friend, I gave you a definition of initiative. I admit that it's from my pocket. But, God willing, it will be in your hands and will give you the meaning. To innovate means to start and accelerate, as the say the scholars, with the action of justice and influence.

before you are forced to do it. For example, look at your circumstances that you can control and your circumstances that you can't control and see what is the best option and the most effective thing you can do in these circumstances and start doing it quickly. Make sure that one day you might be forced to do this thing but after the time is up and its effect is very weak at that time. So my dear viewer and my dear friend, don't wait until you die of hunger to look for food. Don't wait for your circumstances

to start moving and trying to survive. Because if you move, before the circumstances force you, you will make a difference in your life. And your movement is a progress and development in your life. But if you move after the circumstances force you, it will be an attempt to success only. And this is the difference between starting now or starting late.

And be careful, be careful, wait for the circumstances to be ideal. Keep in mind that this will never happen. So from now on, start changing your life and changing the circumstances that you can control. And first of all, these circumstances and most importantly, your mind.

If you change it, learn from it, develop it and invest in it, you will have a lot of opportunities. And as I told you in the previous example, English language is enough. If you learn English from YouTube, you will have a lot of opportunities. And any information other than English language will provide you with more options. This video is enough to change your life.

So what about 10 videos like this? That's why I subscribe to the channel And one book like this, will definitely change your life So what about 100 books like this? And as long as you have a phone, you can get the information to your limit And as long as you have a phone, you can succeed in your life In 2018, my friend, and because I was running out of money I was looking for an additional income source through the internet And I found very strange things

And anyone can do it For example, one of the videos said open an Instagram account and set a certain niche And niche means a specific content and a specific group of people And he said for example, choose to upload songs for a famous singer Michael Jackson for example

and you are tired of the account and you download a lot of songs and you download photos and you download songs from parties and you download songs from albums old songs and new songs and you repeat it and you work every day he used to say work every day on this account and you will get 10,000 followers in the longest time

6 months and then you show this account to the seller you say I have an account with 10,000 followers I will sell it for almost $1,000 of course Instagram accounts that exceed 10,000 many business owners search for it because when you reach 10,000 on Instagram they will give you more options for the business for example you can put a discount button for the order and a discount button for the delivery and things like that

So he says, you sell it for 1000$, so let's say 4000 Saudi Riyals. You might say, 4000 Saudi Riyals in 6 months, you can't even afford it. Good, you have a smart mind. He replies and says, who told you that I'm going to sell 1 account every 6 months? He says, do 5, 6, 7 accounts. And he sends it to you every day, and after 6 months, you're going to sell 6 accounts or 7 accounts, each account for 1000$, 7000$, multiplied by 4, so...

Who owns the sports now? 7/6 = 35 + 7 = 42 42 thousand Saudi Riyals So 42 thousand Saudi Riyals Do you know what I'm proud of? I was on a break from May 2015 to September 2016 And I never thought that I would go on YouTube and say "Master, go on the internet" And I would go on this video and do it at that time And I would make 42 thousand Saudi Riyals while on a break By the way

This is the advantage of reading Reading is not just a science For example, I read the book of the rich and the poor And he taught me how to reach the Tharaa And the information was very amazing But despite this, I will not be satisfied with this book I will read other books that will teach me how to reach the Tharaa Why? Not in search of information No, because books, as they give you information, expand your horizons Let you see things and opportunities that you do not see Really read, and your Lord is the most generous You just read, God will honor you

42,000 Saudi Riyals, my friend the viewer I'm going to do it now, turn off my video and I'm going to do it And there are many types of niches You can download famous artist songs You can download famous game goals You can download about movies, anime, games, anything, there are many genres Oh man, people open Instagram accounts, download news Or download funny and funny videos only And invest money All you need or need is a phone and internet And you can easily change your circumstances

Of course you might ask me why didn't you do it Nasser if you see it like me? Who told you my friend? I didn't do it, no I did what's better and harder than it And making this content that you see on YouTube is harder and better than it This is one way that can change your life In YouTube you will find millions of ways

No, and if you speak English, you'll look for English videos and you'll see more ways than the ones in Arabic. It's a waste, a waste, it's a waste. So what's the story of happiness, Nasser? And how is happiness an option and sadness an option? I'll teach you. It's very easy. Have you ever had a poor worker who's always sad?

And you say that he's sorry because he left his family and traveled and he's working 12 hours a day to earn 400 riyals a month. So he's sorry and nothing else. And also, another year passes by, poor like him, but always happy and happy. And sometimes you're sad and he's the one who makes you happy. The question is,

Why? Why is this person poor and sad and this person poor like him but happy? The answer is: This person chose to be sad and this person chose to be happy. Ok, so what about the work? Haven't you seen people who lost their limbs or got blinded? Or got sick with chronic diseases like cancer? Or they became sitting on chairs and despite that they are happy? Why? Because sadness is an option and happiness is an option. And the topic is related to the circumstances that you can control or cannot control.

And let me teach you how you can choose happiness. Stephen Covey says that just like we have two types of circumstances, we have two types of people who deal with these circumstances. The first is called the active person. Of course, Stephen Covey put circumstances that we can't control in a circle and called it the circle of interest. And put circumstances that we can control in a circle and called it the circle of influence. And he said to you that the active person always lives in this circle. He only sees this circle in his life and that's why he's always sad.

Indeed, I swear to God, this is a very sad topic Imagine that you are always sleeping and waking up and always thinking about the circumstances that you can't control It's sad And the second person is the creative person And this person always focuses on the circle of influence and focuses on the circumstances that he can control And with his focus, this is the choice of happiness Because if the circumstances were very difficult, let's assume that for example, he sat down And decided to choose happiness and focus on the circumstances that he can control and learn the English language

Physiologically, if he learned English, he would have been injected with dopamine hormone. This thing would be a blow to his body. If he did something specific, the body would have been injected with dopamine hormone. And dopamine hormone makes a person feel happy. So the subject is physiologically correct, not psychologically.

Physiologically, it means physical and psychologically, it means psychological. So, there is no such thing as psychological knowledge. No, this is really how the body works. Okay, do you want me to teach you how to know if you are an active or creative person? Whether it's always or in some situations? Come on, Asim. From your language, my friend, the follower, you can know if you are an active or creative person. You can know if you are focused on the conditions you can control or the conditions you cannot control.

For example, the first thing you hear is, "I don't have a choice." "I don't want anything." "This is the case, and I don't want anything." You are an active person. But if you say, "Let me look for solutions." "Let me look for a solution that I can find out about this case." That's how you are an creative person. The first thing you hear is,

You say "I can't do it" "I can't" "I can't succeed" "I can't win" "I can't lose" "I can't learn" "I can't do it" "I can't" "I can't" "I can't" You are an active person But if you say "How can I do that?" "How can I learn?" "How can I lose?" "How can I win?" "How can I succeed?" "How?" "How?" "How?" You are making your mind and body ready to learn

And he will help you in reaching solutions. And so you are a creative person. And if you said, my friend, I am not the reason for that. And you started to blame others and the circumstances around you. So you are an active person. My life partner is the reason.

My mom and dad are the reason. My manager is the reason. Or you take care of the circumstances and say, "I swear, money is the reason." Or the job is what didn't let me find time to learn or to do business or succeed. And many other forms of greed. That's how you become a person in your life. And the creative person always throws his own greed. And always when he sees something he failed in or something he couldn't achieve,

He goes and looks for himself why he couldn't do this And he says, yes, I swear, I didn't learn this thing well Yes, I swear, I didn't try this thing to know how it could happen Indeed, I didn't find time to open a project in it Or find time to develop myself in it Because I didn't learn a system from time management systems So, my friend, the follower Any language you use that shows you're weak Or makes you focus on the conditions you can't change This language teaches you that you're an active person in this case

I chose to fail and I chose to be sad. Once, my friend Les Brown sent me a video where he talked about the chicken man. And he said, "Less Brown, in downtown in our city, there was a man we used to call the chicken man. He used to drive his car and walk around downtown and beat a 24-hour bull. And if he got out of his car, he would have a car with him with two kids, a woman's picture, and if you got close to him, you would hear him always making the sound of the chicken."

And we all laughed at the chicken man and didn't know what happened. He said that one day, he woke up at his house and started to burn. So he got up and ran outside to save himself. When he got out, he found out that his wife and her children were still inside. His wife was going to save their two children, but they couldn't get out of the house. So out of fear, he couldn't go back inside the house to save them. So he used to hear their screams and their screaming and they would get up.

And when his brother and wife came after the war ended, he grabbed him and hit him and he was struggling and he was replying to him, "Why didn't you save the chickens?" Of course, in English, chicken is used as a chicken and as a chicken. So he was saying to him, "Why didn't you save the chickens?"

And from that day on, that man entered the pit of sadness and established this situation that he can't change in his life. And so he chose sadness and decided to get into it from that day on, and he is the chicken man. Choosing to focus on the circle of interest, and that's why he chose sadness all his life.

And there's a sentence in the book "The Secret" that I read, it's very strange It says that our feelings of sadness and joy are like the mirror that reflects the thinking that is in our mind So if the thoughts that are in our mind lead us to sadness, we will be sad And if the thoughts that are in our mind make us happy, we will be happy So as soon as you feel sad, make sure that the thoughts that are in your mind are focusing on the circumstances that you can't control

and change your thinking immediately and think about the circumstances you can control and change them and you will change your life. As I told you in the video I talked about the introduction of this book Change starts from changing thinking from changing the ideological views So, my friend, the follower changed your thinking and started thinking about the circumstances

I have to share it with you, my dear viewer.

Stephen says in one of the speeches I was talking about the initiative A man said: "Steven, I like what you say, but every situation is different from the other one. Take my marriage for example, I'm very worried about it.

لأنني أنا وزوجتي لم نعد نكن لبعضنا البعض المشاعر ذاتها كسابق عهدها يعني مشاعرنا ذبلت بالعربي وأعتقد أنني لم أعد أحبها كما أنها لم تعد تحبني أيضا فما الذي يسعني القيام به فسألته ألم تعد بينكما أي مشاعر فأجابني مؤكدا هذا صحيح ولدينا ثلاثة أطفال ونحن قلقان جدا بشأنهم فما الذي تقترحه فأجبته أحبها

So he said, how?

How can I love someone I don't love? So I said, my friend, love is an action Listen, listen to the strong words, listen My friend, love is an action And the feelings of love are the result of this action So do it with love And serve it And appreciate it And sacrifice for it And listen to it And care for it This is the love of action

So you made feelings the ones that lead to actions And the opposite is true Actions come first and then feelings come Love is an action So are you able to do that? Oh my God, oh my God, oh my God Did you see how the mind can make changes under any circumstances? So my friend and my friend, you can change your life under

Any situation that you have to change your perspective and start thinking about the circumstances that you can control And start working on it with the farm theory and your life will change And change your life to the level of wealth Steve Harvey turned from a homeless person who doesn't sleep in his car in the streets To a person who values his wealth in millions of dollars in less than 20 or 25 years Did you see the farm theory? And I'm like

Make sure you know someone or know someone who might change their life because of this information Send this video to him and if you really benefited from it, don't forget to like it Follow the videos that you will see as beautiful and entertaining and the first thing you do after this video is to take a piece of paper and write down the circumstances that you can control in your life and stick it on the door Every day when you leave the room door, you look at it to remember it and change it and as I told you

The most important thing you can change in your life is your mind. The more you learn and develop it, the more you will have more options. And one video with good information like this can change your life. So don't worry about 10 videos or 100 videos, so don't forget to subscribe to the channel. The dopamine dose of this day is over, my dear viewer. I will see you next week, God willing, with a better, more beautiful, and stronger dose. Thank you for listening. Peace be upon you.

You are among the people I have You have something big How can I be patient when I see many people around you