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Hello, welcome to the series of videos of education of life. This time we will discuss about friends and the danger of bullying. Before we get into the discussion, let's take a look at the following story. Agus is a fat student. He is not very fit for sports. He runs slow. Farel likes to make a trick to kick Agus.
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He called Agus with the words "fat", "tough", and "slow". Farel even likes to push Agus when he is in a hurry. Sometimes, Farel and his friends throw rocks at Agus when they walk to his house, just because it makes them happy. Prita, who often sees the incident, is just silent and doesn't dare to report it.
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The scene is closed with the question, "Who is the victim? The perpetrator and the witness of the bullying? What could have been felt and happened in Agus as a result of Farel's and his friends' actions? What is your reaction when you see the event? "Bullying is an event where someone does or says something bad to someone else.
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Bullying is usually done continuously and repeatedly by one or a group of people to one or a group of other people for weeks, months, or even years. Here are the types of bullying that may happen: Verbal or Lisan, which is to kick and beat someone.
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Physical, that is, physically hurting someone, breaking or stealing things, behavior or vulgar and insolent body movements. Social or relational, that is, breaking social relations through cheating, lying, or spreading gossip. Threatening
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that is to make someone feel scared, intimidated, or make them do things forcibly. Cyberbullying, that is bullying through the internet, cell phones, or other technologies to disturb, threaten, embarrass, or harass others.
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Cyberbullying examples include sending emails, short messages, comments or sick posts, hacking someone's email or social media accounts, imitating others online, and so on. Finally, sexual bullying, i.e. unwanted touch,
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comment or sexual behavior, including comments about other people's sexuality or sexual orientation. In order not to be a bullying perpetrator, we must be able to empathize. This is the ability to understand what others may feel. We can empathize to understand how the victim of bullying may feel something.
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We can also empathize to understand the beginning of why people bully others.
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It is possible that they bully others because they themselves feel distrustful, want to be acknowledged by their friends, or afraid of being bullied. Of course, these reasons do not make bullying acceptable. We must find more positive ways to channel our negative emotions.
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Bullying has a very bad impact on victims, including: Sadness and changing moods, lack of self-confidence, closed personality, lack of achievement and desire to learn, desire to move to another school, depression, high potential to bully others, hurt oneself or others, even kill oneself,
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In addition, bullying can also affect the level of school, such as affecting the learning results and the level of memory of all students at school or causing inter-school conflicts. To better understand bullying, try you and your friends discuss the following cases.
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Ira and her friends were happy to bully a teenage girl from another school named Sarah through social media. They made a fake profile and started sending unpleasant messages to Sarah.
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Then, when they found out that Sarah blocked them, they decided to create a profile using Sarah's name and started to post comments and inappropriate photos pretending to be Sarah. Sarah was very disappointed with the bullying she experienced and thought of hurting herself.
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Sarah has told her teacher about what she experienced, but her teacher did not understand how social media works and told Sarah that she could not help her. Please you and your friends discuss the problems involving Ira, Sarah and their friends.
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Hopefully this short video can help us all to avoid bullying and can be friendly with good and healthy. If you feel, experience or witness bullying, remember to report it to an adult you trust. Or call the Children's Social Services Service at 1500 771. See you!
