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20. The Good Life: Happiness

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This lecture will be a some slightly shorter lecture than

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usual. What I first want to do is

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finish off the discussion of clinical psychology from last

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lecture and then have a little brief discussion about some very

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interesting research on happiness.

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We talked--we ended last lecture with a discussion of

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some early--some of the history of treating mental illness and

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we saw that it was rather gruesome,

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unsuccessful, and arbitrary. For the most part,

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we do better now, and Dr.

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Nolen-Hoeksema reviewed some of the therapies with focus on

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therapies for depression. The textbook talks in detail

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about therapies for different disorders including

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schizophrenia, anxiety disorders,

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and so on. The question which everyone is

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interested in is, "Does therapy work?"

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And this proves to be surprisingly difficult to tell.

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Part of the problem is if you ask people who go into therapy,

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"Did you get better after therapy?"

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for the most part they'll tell you that they did but the

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problem is this could be a statistical byproduct of what's

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called "regression to the mean." So, the idea looks like this.

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This line plots how you feel from great through okay to awful

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and it goes up and down and in fact in everyday life you're

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going to--some days are going to be average,

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some days will be better than average, some days worse than

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average. You could plot your semester.

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You could do a plot every morning when you wake up or

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every night before you go to bed.

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You could put yourself on a graph and it'll come out to some

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sort of wiggly thing. Statistically,

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if something is above average or below average it's going to

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trend towards average just because that's a statistical

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inevitability. When do people go to therapy?

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Well, they go to therapy when they're feeling really crappy.

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They go to therapy when they're feeling unusually bad.

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Even if therapy then has no effect at all,

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if it's true that people's moods tend to go up and down

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after you feel really bad you'll probably improve rather than get

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worse. And so this could happen--the

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normal flow could happen just even if therapy has no effect at

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all. And so, simply getting better

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after therapy doesn't tell you anything.

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On the worst day of your life you could do naked jumping jacks

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on the roof of your college for ten minutes.

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I guarantee you your next day would probably be better.

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That doesn't mean naked jumping jacks are helping you.

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Rather, it just means that the day after the worst day of your

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life usually is not as bad as the worst day of your life.

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It can get worse, but usually it just trends to

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average. What you've got to do then is

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you have to take people at the same point who would get

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treatment and compare them to people who do not get treatment

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or what we call a "control group."

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And this is an example of this. So, this is for people who are

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depressed. This is statistically equal.

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They start off pre-therapy. They all go for therapy but

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because in this example there's a limited number of therapists,

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some of them are put on a waiting list and others get a

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therapist. It's arbitrary.

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It's random, which is--which--making it a

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very good experiment. And in this example,

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you could see those who received cognitive training were

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better off. They had lower depression

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scores than those that received no therapy at all.

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In general, in fact, we could make some general

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conclusions about therapy. Therapy by and large works.

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People in treatment do better than those who are not in

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treatment and that's not merely because they choose to go into

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treatment. Rather, it's people who are in

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desperate straits who seek out help.

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Those who get help are likely to be better off than those that

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don't get help. Therapy for the most part works.

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We can't cure a lot of things but we can often make them

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better. Different sorts of therapy

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works best for different problems, and again,

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depression proves to be an illustrative example.

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If you have everyday unipolar depression, that is,

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you feel very sad and you show other symptoms associated with

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depression, an excellent treatment for you

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is some combination of cognitive behavioral therapy and possibly

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antidepressant medications like SSRIs.

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If you have bipolar depression, the cognitive behavioral

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therapy is useless but medication is your best bet and

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so on for all of the other disorders.

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Each disorder has some sort of optimal mode of treatment.

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If you suffer from an anxiety disorder, cognitive behavioral

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therapy can be of help. If you're a schizophrenic it's

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probably not going to be of much help at all.

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And so, different disorders go best with different sorts of

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therapies. Finally, some therapists do

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better than others. So, for reasons that nobody

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fully understands, there are good therapists and

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then there are better therapists and there are bad therapists.

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And there's great individual differences in the efficacy of

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an individual therapist. Finally, putting aside then the

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difference in therapies and the difference in therapists,

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does it make sense to say that therapy, in general,

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works? And the answer is "yes."

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And this is in large part because of what clinical

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psychologists describe as "nonspecific factors."

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And what this just is a term meaning properties that all

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therapies, or virtually all therapies, share and I've listed

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two of them here. One of them is "support."

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No matter what sort of therapy you're getting involved in,

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be it a psychoanalyst or a behavior therapist or a

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cognitive therapist or a psychiatrist who prescribes you

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medication or someone who makes you go through different

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exercises or keeps a journal, you have some sense of support,

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some acceptance, empathy, encouragement,

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guidance. You have a human touch.

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You have somebody who for at least some of the day really

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cares about you and wants you to be better and that could make a

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huge difference. Also you have hope.

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Typically, there's an enthusiasm behind therapy.

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There's a sense that this might really make me get better and

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that hope could be powerful. Sometimes this is viewed under

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the rubric of a placebo effect, which is that maybe the

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benefits you get from therapy aren't due to anything in

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particular the therapist does to you but rather to the belief

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that things are going to get better,

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something is being done that will help you.

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And this belief can be a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"Placebo effect" is often used sort of in a dismissive way,

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"Oh, it's just a placebo," but placebos can be powerful

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and even if it's useless from a real point--from a psychological

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theory point of view, even if the therapist runs

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around and dances while you – I have dancing on my mind now

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– while you sit in the chair and watch him dance;

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if you believe the dancing is going to make you better,

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it may well help. Okay.

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That's all I'm going to say about therapy.

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Any questions about therapy? Yes.

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Student: [inaudible] Professor Paul Bloom:

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Fair enough. The question is the assumption

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of regression to the mean seems sort of arbitrary because it

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depends what the mean is. Always after the fact you can

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apply an average to it and say, "Look.

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This is the average," but how do you know beforehand?

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It's a good point. When you talk about regression

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to the mean, it adopts certain assumptions.

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The assumption is there really is an average throughout much of

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your life and things go up and down within that average and for

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the most part that's true for things like mood.

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For most of us, we have an average mood and we

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have bad days and we have good days.

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It's always possible that you have a bad day and then from

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there on in it's just going to go down and down and down but

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statistically the best bet is if you have a bad day you're going

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to go back up to the mean. It's--in some way you don't

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even have to see it from a clinical point of view.

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You could map it out yourself. Map out your moods and the days

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where you're most depressed sooner or later you're likely to

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go up. Similarly, on the happiest day

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of your life odds are the next day you're going to go down and

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there's nothing magical about this.

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This is just because under the assumption that there really is

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an average in--built into one--each of us.

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If human behavior was arbitrary, it would be like a

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random walk but it's not. We seem to have sort of set

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points and aspects of us that we fall back to that make the idea

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of a mean a psychologically plausible claim.

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Yes. Student: [inaudible]

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Professor Paul Bloom: That's a good question.

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Yes. In that study it's a perfectly

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good hypothesis that the sort of anxiety of being told,

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"I see you've come here for help.

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We can't give it to you. Congratulations.

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You're a control group" [laughs]

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causes anxiety. In other studies the control

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group doesn't know they are the control group.

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So sometimes you can do an intervention where you say,

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"Congratulations, everybody in Intro Psych who

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did very low on the depression inventory,"

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which many of you filled out, "We're going to do something to

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you." And then the rest of the people

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don't even know that they haven't been chosen.

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So, you're right. It's a perfectly good point.

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Knowing you're not chosen could have a deleterious effect and

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the way to respond to that is you have other studies that

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don't use that same method.

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Okay. I want to end with happiness

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and it's a strange thing to talk about in psychology.

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Most of psychology focuses on human misery,

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most of clinical psychology. There is the psychology we

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spoke about through most of the semester on vision and language

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and social behavior, but typically when people think

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about interventions what they think about is people having

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problems and then we figure out how to make them better.

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They are schizophrenic, they are depressed or anxious,

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they are just not making it in life,

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and psychologists try to figure out how to make things improve.

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And in fact, a lot of the information I gave

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you at the beginning of the lecture last class where I

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reviewed all of the disorders is in this wonderful book called

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DSM-IV, The Diagnostic and Statistical

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Manual of Mental Disorders. If you ever really want to

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get--If you really [laughs] want to diagnose people and

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come to have a belief in your own mental instability,

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browsing through that book is a treat.

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Everything that can go wrong in mental life from Aspergers

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syndrome to fetishes to paranoid schizophrenia is all in that

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wonderful book and--but a lot of psychologists have been

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disturbed by the focus of our field on taking bad people,

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people who are broken, people who are sad,

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and bringing them up to normal. And they've started to ask can

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psychology give us any insight into human flourishing,

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how to take people who are--who--how to study people

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who are psychological successes, how to take people who are

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psychologically okay and make them better.

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And this is the movement known as "positive psychology."

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And it has its own handbook now, The Handbook of Positive

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Psychology, listing psychological strengths,

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listing virtues, ways--what psychology tells us

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about how we can be at our best. Some of this work in positive

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psychology is, in my mind, real crap.

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A lot of it is some combination of new age banalities by people

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who are striving to get more grant funds and end up on

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Time magazine. On the other hand--and so,

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some of it is really bad. You could imagine this attracts

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every self-help huckster you could imagine.

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On the other hand, a lot of this work is quite

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neat, quite interesting and quite promising.

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And what I want to do is tell you what I think is the most

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interesting research from this movement concerning happiness.

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Now, there are a lot of good books on this and I'm going to

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recommend books, which I haven't been doing much

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in this class. Marty Seligman is the pioneer

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of positive psychology and he's written an excellent book called

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Authentic Happiness. Jonathan Haidt is a brilliant

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young scholar who's done--also done a lot of work on disgust

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and morality. He did the "sex with dead

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chicken study" we discussed earlier.

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This is one of my favorite books by – Happiness by

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Nettle, because it's smart, it's beautifully written and

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it's extremely short. And Dan Gilbert's book,

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Stumbling on Happiness, is a very, very funny book and

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very smart book and is now on The New York Times

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bestseller list. So, there's no shortage of

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books on happiness. So, the starting point is--And

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a lot of research on happiness starts with a basic question:

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How happy are you? And we're psychologists so tell

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us on a scale of one to ten where five is average,

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ten is super-duper. The most common answers,

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interestingly enough, are high.

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They're seven or eight. How many people in this room

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would give themselves a seven or an eight?

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Okay. How many a nine or a ten?

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All right. How many a ten?

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Good, good, maxed out on happiness.

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It turns out that most people think that they're pretty happy.

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There's a Lake Wobegon effect with happiness.

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Most people think they're very happy.

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In fact, most people think they're happier than most

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people, which shouldn't really happen.

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This question, "How happy are you from one to

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ten?" has been asked all over the

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world. So--and it turns out there are

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slight differences depending on how old you are.

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There are slight differences depending on your place within a

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country, California versus New York.

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There are slight, subtle differences between men

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and women at different points, somewhat paradoxically.

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Although women are more vulnerable to depression than

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men, still on average women are slightly happier than men.

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The country-by-country data is quite interesting.

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In one study they looked at forty-two countries.

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The happiest--well, let me see. The happiest people on

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earth--well, first, no country believed they were

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unhappy, the people in no country of these forty-two

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countries. I mean, you're thinking there

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are some really bad countries to live in and I don't know if they

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were tested but of these forty-two everybody seemed--said

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they were above average. The happiest people on earth?

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The Swiss. [laughter]

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They think--they're just like--they're just so happy.

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I was talking to people about this last night and they

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suggested chocolate. [laughter]

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The saddest people on this--on the sample?

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The sad Bulgarians. [laughter]

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You are wondering what about Americans.

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Americans are actually pretty happy, 7.71.

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We are a happy country full of happy people.

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Now, I'm going to talk about a lot of research that's based on

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the data you get when you ask people how happy they are from a

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scale of one to ten. But I'm going to be honest and

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tell you there are reasons to be cautious about these numbers.

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And the reasons come from a couple of experiments.

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In one experiment they asked people inside a psychology

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department where there was a photocopy machine.

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They went up to people--the people were going up to the

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photocopy machine to make copies and when they were done making

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copies they asked them, "How happy are you with your

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entire life?" There were two groups.

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Group A, they put a dime on top of the photocopy machine so

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people walked over there, "I'm going to [inaudible].

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Oh, a dime. Well."

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The other group, no dime. It turned out that when asked

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"How good is your whole life?" [laughter]

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group A reported [laughter] greater life satisfaction

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overall in their entire lives. Another study asked people how

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happy you are with your whole life on sunny days like today

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and people said they were happier on sunny days than rainy

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days. What's interesting is you could

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make this effect go away if you ask immediately before "How's

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the weather?" These were done by phone

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interviews. And logically,

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what seems to go on is that if you're asked how's the weather,

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you're "Oh, it's really sunny outside," and then when people

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are asked "How happy are you with your whole life?"

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people then say, "Oh, okay. I'm going to take into account

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the sunny-ness when I give my answer.

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Okay. So, what is happiness?

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What are people rating when they're answering these sort of

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questions? And this is an extraordinarily

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difficult question and one could devote a seminar to discussing

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it, but one simple answer from an

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evolutionary point of view is that happiness--forget about

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"what is happiness?" Ask "what's happiness for?"

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just like we've asked what language is for,

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or what laughter is for, or what hunger or lust is for.

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What's happiness for? And one answer is happiness is

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a goal state that we've evolved to pursue.

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It's a signal that our needs have been satisfied.

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Happiness is the carrot we're running towards that makes us

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take care of our lives. We want to be happy.

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An example of this is food. You're not very happy if you're

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starving. You want to be satiated,

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you want to be satisfied, so you seek out food to fill

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your belly. Once you've done it,

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you're happy. Steven Pinker summarizes the

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keys to happiness in a nicely evocative passage:

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"We are happier when we are healthy,

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well-fed, comfortable, safe, prosperous,

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knowledgeable, respected, non-celibate,

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in love." How many people here have got

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all of those right now? Oh, come on.

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[laughter] Some people. Oddly enough,

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the person who said he was a ten didn't--does not raise his

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hand. Okay.

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[laughter] So this is- And this makes

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out--you get all your needs satisfied,

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your belly is full, people love you,

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you're getting sex regularly, you're smart,

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you're rich, you're happy,

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but as Pinker points out it's not that simple.

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Here's the problem.

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You, Americans in this century, you are now healthier,

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better fed and so on than just about anyone in history but

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you're not happier. That's the puzzle.

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In particular, these studies asking about

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happiness have been around for a long time.

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People in the 1950s did not make as much money,

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did not eat as well, did not live as long,

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suffered from more diseases, were more vulnerable in a

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hundred different ways, yet they were--are as happy as

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you are now. You are as happy as your

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parents were and they were as happy as your grandparents.

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Moreover, in poor countries people don't have the shelter,

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the knowledge, the protection,

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the safety, yet, for the most part,

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there's not a huge effect on how rich a country is and--on

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how happy the people are. Furthermore,

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there are great individual differences in happiness among

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people whose basic needs are met.

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For the most part, everybody in this room is fed

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and sheltered and safe. Some of you are prosperous,

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some of you are knowledgeable, a couple non-celibate,

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and-- [laughter] but even among that group you

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vary in your happiness, and that's kind of a puzzle.

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And to explain the puzzle we need to talk about a few

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surprising facts about happiness and I'll present three of them.

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The first is happiness doesn't change as much as you think.

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In particular, happiness is not as sensitive

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to what happens--your happiness is not as sensitive to what

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happens in your environment as you might think it is.

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Part of the reason for this is that there appears to be a

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strong heritable basis for happiness.

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So, just as we talked about the domains of personality and

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intelligence, there is some genetic

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determination, not entirely but some,

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in how happy you are. And some people talk in terms

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of a genetically determined set point.

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So, you have a sort of natural happiness level,

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maybe a range. To put it in extreme form,

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some people are genetically predisposed to be pretty sour,

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others to be pretty cheerful.

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Well, that can't be it. Identical twins are very

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similar in their happiness but, as with everything else we've

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discussed, they're not identical.

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What about life events? Wouldn't life events change

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your happiness? And here we're entering one of

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the great discoveries of happiness research.

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Think for a moment. What's the worst thing that

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could happen to you? And then ask how much would it

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change your happiness. Now, think for a moment.

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What's the best thing that could happen to you?

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And ask how much would it change your happiness.

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And the research in happiness suggests that your gut feelings

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are probably wrong. And here's a couple of case

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studies. For many people a very bad

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thing that could happen to you is to be paralyzed from the neck

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down in an accident. It turns out obviously,

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common sense, that when this happens it makes

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people very unhappy. It makes them depressed,

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they think their life is over, they feel terribly sad,

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but not for that long. After about a year after being

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paralyzed from the neck down, people's happiness comes back

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up pretty much to where it was before,

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suggesting that there's a temporary effect but not a

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permanent one. Many people believe that

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winning many, many millions of dollars in the

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lottery will make you happier and it does.

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When you open up that winning ticket and you say,

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"I won one hundred million dollars," you say,

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"Woo, hoo!" You are honest to God very

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happy. You'd say, "Hell,

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I'm a 10.5, I am very happy." A year later you are not as

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happy. In fact, lottery winning may be

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a terrible case where people--where it goes the

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reverse of what you expect. What happens when you win a lot

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of money is it often wrenches you away from your family,

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your work and your friends and leads you to depression and

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sadness but even mundane events that would make you happy--that

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you think would make you happy don't seem to last.

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In some research by Dan Gilbert and others, they've asked young

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assistant professors who are coming up for tenure,

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and tenure in a university system is a good thing to get

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because it gives you lifetime job security,

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"How happy would you feel if you got tenure?

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How happy would you feel if you didn't get tenure?"

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Prior to the last election, they asked people "How happy

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would you be if it was President Bush?

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How happy would you be if it was President Kerry?"

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And it turns out people radically overestimated the

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effects of these things. Having your favorite candidate

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win is not such a big deal. Having your favorite candidate

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lose is not such a big deal either.

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Getting tenure or not getting tenure are really big when it

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happens. Six months later and a year

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later your happiness doesn't seem to be affected.

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The purchase of consumer goods, an Xbox 360,

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a nice flat screen TV, those sorts of things make you

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very happy when you open up the package and set it up but this

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happiness fades almost immediately.

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The moral of--A lot of people are shaking their heads.

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It's true, not for me but--the moral of a lot of this work is

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we think these things will have big permanent and profound

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effects but they need not and they often don't.

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Why not? Why do we overestimate their

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happiness? And the technical term for

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this, by the way, is "affective forecasting."

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Again, this is Dan Gilbert's work and the idea is we are bad

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at affective forecasting. That is, we are bad at

27:33

predicting how happy or sad we will be in the future based on

27:37

what's happening to us. Why?

27:42

Well, a couple of reasons. One thing is there's often a

27:44

failure to appreciate the day-to-day irrelevance of

27:47

certain events. So prior to the election--the

27:51

election's happening tomorrow and I ask somebody who's a

27:55

diehard Democrat, "How would you feel if Bush

27:58

won?" and the person said,

28:00

"I'll be miserable. It'll be a miserable four years

28:03

afterwards." But what often isn't

28:06

appreciated here is that whether or not Bush wins will make you

28:10

sad or happy after it happens but for the most of your

28:14

day-to-day life you aren't thinking about who the president

28:18

is. I'd be very happy if I won a

28:22

huge prize and I'd be "Whoa, a huge prize," the Nobel prize,

28:27

a Guggenheim, a MacArthur ‘Genius' or I get

28:29

them all in the same day. [laughter] "What a day.

28:32

I am really happy." But then a month later I'm

28:36

there and I've still got my regular insomnia and there's

28:40

nothing on TV and the plumber's not coming and my kids don't

28:44

respect me and I can't--and the fact that "Yeah,

28:48

but I won the prize," it doesn't matter.

28:51

A lot of the things in life that'll make you really--that

28:55

you think will make you really happy don't have this day-to-day

28:58

effect. Also, there is the logic of the

29:02

set point. And this comes to a terrible

29:06

word: We adapt. Right now I'm a guy without a

29:10

Nobel prize. I'm kind of used to it.

29:13

If I got a Nobel prize I'd be a guy with a Nobel prize.

29:17

I'd be happy but then I'd kind of get used to that too.

29:21

And if I got a second one, "whoa, two!"

29:22

but then I'd just get used to that too.

29:25

You get used to things. You get used to bad things.

29:29

Now, I don't want to overstate this.

29:32

There are some very interesting exceptions.

29:35

So for instance, we don't get used to noise.

29:43

A lot of research suggests that if your environment is noisy,

29:47

they're doing construction around you, you can't get used

29:51

to it. Your happiness drops and it

29:53

doesn't come back up. Your system cannot habituate to

29:57

continued noise. We adapt to good things,

30:01

winning the lottery, winning a prize,

30:05

getting an "A " in a course. We adapt, we get used to it,

30:11

also with some surprising exceptions.

30:14

One of the big--one of the other surprises from happiness

30:18

research is the effects of cosmetic surgery like breast

30:21

enhancement and breast reduction.

30:23

One of the big surprises is it makes people happier and then

30:28

they stay happier. And one explanation for this is

30:33

how we look is very important. It's very important for how

30:36

other people see us and how we see ourselves,

30:38

and you never get used to looking in a certain way.

30:41

So, if you look better it just makes you happier all the time.

30:44

So, there are these exceptions but putting aside the

30:49

exceptions, the problem of adaptation is sometimes called

30:54

"the hedonic treadmill" and the idea is hedonic for happy.

31:00

You keep on running but no matter how fast you run you stay

31:05

where you are, you get used to it.

31:08

Habituation is like you put--you step into a very hot

31:12

bath but you get used to it. If it's a cold bath you get

31:14

used to it. A difficult environment,

31:16

an easy environment, you get used to it.

31:19

The story is often illustrated--It's often

31:23

illustrated with a story from the Bible in Ecclesiastes of a

31:28

king and this king had it all. He had gardens,

31:32

parks, vineyards, castles, slaves and concubines

31:37

and they were both male and female concubines.

31:41

[laughter] So, he had everything,

31:43

right, but it didn't make him happy and here's what he says:

31:48

"I hated life. All this vanity and a chasing

31:52

after wind and there is nothing to be gained under the sun."

31:56

Now, in these books I talked about at the beginning these

32:00

authors give advice on how to deal with the hedonic treadmill.

32:05

How do you deal with the fact that everything you aspire to,

32:09

once you get it you'll be used to it and it will lose its

32:13

value? Well, one answer is that

32:16

possessions are not the key to happiness.

32:20

Possessions you very quickly get used to.

32:25

From there, there are two alternatives.

32:29

One is endless novelty. So one guy – I forget his

32:32

name – wrote a book and he says, "Look.

32:34

There's the hedonic treadmill. The trick is always do

32:36

something different. Next week have sex with

32:39

somebody you've never had sex before.

32:41

Then climb Mount Everest. You get bored with that,

32:44

become an accountant. Boring.

32:46

Scuba diving. Boring."

32:48

He had endless ideas, and that's a possibility.

32:53

You never--you--if you keep changing what you're doing

32:56

you'll never get used to anything and you'll always be

32:59

happy. At least he says that.

33:02

Then there's the old guy alternative.

33:04

Step off the treadmill. Give up--give up chasing the

33:08

whole happiness thing and then seek out more substantial goods

33:12

that might actually not make you happy in the simple sense of a

33:17

quick fix of delight, but substantial goods like

33:21

friends and family and long-term projects.

33:25

So, the first moral of the science of happiness is that

33:30

your happiness is actually rather fixed.

33:35

It's fixed in part genetically and it's fixed in part because

33:38

what happens in your life you'll get used to, to a large extent.

33:42

Are you raising your hand? No.

33:43

Oh, sorry. The second one is happiness is

33:53

relative. So, there's a lot of research

33:57

on money, power and happiness, and remember I did say before

34:01

that it doesn't matter whether you come from a rich country or

34:06

a poor country. As long as your country--as

34:09

long as you're not starving to death, it kind of doesn't matter

34:12

how rich your country is for how happy you are.

34:14

But that's not the same as saying it doesn't matter how

34:18

much money you make. In fact, there's a set point or

34:22

a range but there is some effect on your salary and on your job

34:27

on your happiness. And if you're desperately poor,

34:31

no matter where you are, no matter who's around you,

34:35

you're not going to be happy. But beyond that your happiness

34:40

depends on your relative circumstance.

34:43

And this is an old insight. H.L.

34:46

Mencken wrote, "A wealthy man is one who earns

34:49

a hundred dollars more than his wife's sister's husband."

34:54

The idea is what matters isn't how much you make.

34:57

What matters is how much you make relative to the people

35:00

around you. And they've asked people this.

35:02

"What would you rather? Do you want to make seventy

35:05

thousand dollars if everybody else in your office is making

35:08

sixty-five thousand or seventy-five thousand dollars if

35:10

everybody else is making eighty thousand?"

35:13

Does it matter how much money you bring home or does it matter

35:16

how much money you make relative to other people?

35:20

Well, they're both factors but relative salary--and in this

35:28

example people prefer this. They prefer to be making less

35:34

if they're making more than the people around them.

35:37

It turns out that there's research on British social

35:41

servants and their happiness and their health and the quality of

35:46

their relationships and how they love their lives doesn't depend

35:51

on how much money they make. It depends on where they are

35:55

relative to everybody else. We are very status conscious

35:59

primates and your role in a hierarchy, your level in the

36:03

hierarchy plays a--has a significant effect on your level

36:08

of happiness. This is not really a secret.

36:12

The opera star Maria Callas and the English professor Stanley

36:17

Fish had the same negotiating strategy.

36:21

When Fish got hired into his department, according to urban

36:25

legend at least, he said, "I don't want to talk

36:28

salary. I don't have a particular

36:30

number in mind. I just want to get paid one

36:32

hundred dollars more than whoever is the top person in

36:35

this department." And that's a guy who knows

36:39

about happiness. He walks in and he states,

36:42

"I'm paid more than everybody else.

36:44

I don't care how much it is. It's just more."

36:48

[laughter] And that's relevant to

36:50

happiness. We're now in a position to give

36:53

some advice to the king, summing up.

36:56

First, going back again to Dr. Nolen-Hoeksema's lecture,

37:00

I think the king is suffering from mild unipolar depression so

37:05

we should--he should get some SSRIs and cognitive behavior

37:09

therapy. I think he needs to move his

37:12

castle to a quiet part of the kingdom.

37:15

The noise of a busy castle is stressful.

37:20

And he needs to give up on the concubines.

37:26

He needs to find a queen. He needs to develop social

37:29

relationships, join a club,

37:31

get involved in charity, maybe a hobby.

37:34

The final finding is a bit of a jump to a different topic

37:41

but--sorry. You raised--yes.

37:44

Student: [inaudible] Professor Paul Bloom:

37:50

The question is, "Would you become used to

37:55

changes of social interaction?" An example is solitary

38:00

confinement or prison. People get used to a lot of

38:03

things. It could be that in those

38:05

examples there is a shift in status as well and social

38:08

relationships and how you think of yourself relative to others

38:12

so that may be difficult to recover from.

38:14

If you're popular at Yale and you go to prison you're not

38:19

going to be very happy your first few days in prison

38:23

probably. But then suppose you get

38:25

popular in prison, people like you,

38:28

you're the head of the book club and everything.

38:31

[laughter] You'd rather not be in

38:33

prison--been in prison but you'll probably be a pretty--if

38:38

you're a cheerful guy here you'll be a cheerful guy in

38:42

prison. The final case is--involves

38:45

judgments of the pleasure and pain of past events.

38:50

And I mentioned the Nobel prize a little while ago as an example

38:54

but the work I'm going to talk about is actually from the one

38:57

psychologist who's alive who's won the Nobel prize--sorry,

39:01

one of the ones who's won the Nobel prize, Daniel Kahneman.

39:05

And he became interested in happiness.

39:09

And you remember him from his rationality research and this is

39:12

some work on happiness. Here's an example.

39:15

Anybody see the movie Marathon Man?

39:18

It involves a dental torture scene.

39:22

Imagine you're going to the dentist and he's torturing you

39:28

or it's a cleaning but it's really painful and it's

39:33

terrible. You're sweaty,

39:36

you're squeezing the thing, and it lasts for an hour and

39:39

then when it's done the dentist leans over and says,

39:43

"We're done now. If you want we could stop.

39:47

But if you want, as a favor to you – I have

39:50

five minutes – I could top you off with some mild pain."

39:54

This may seem like a very odd thing to ask.

39:58

Here's the alternative. What do you want?

40:01

A dental procedure that's very painful for an hour or a dental

40:06

procedure that's very painful for an hour--sorry about the "S"

40:11

there --and then some additional mild pain?

40:15

Who votes for A? You got to choose one.

40:18

Who votes for A? Okay.

40:21

Who votes for B? Okay.

40:24

Here's the big finding. The big finding is "yes," B

40:30

involves more pain. It's true.

40:34

"A" is an hour of pain. "B" is an hour of pain plus a

40:39

few minutes of more pain. Seems like a no-brainer but

40:44

when you have A or B and you have to remember it later on

40:49

you'll have a much nicer memory of B than A.

40:54

Kahneman's insight is when you think back on events you don't

40:58

just add up the amount of pleasure or pain you

41:02

experienced. Rather, your memory is highly

41:05

skewed to peaks and then to endings.

41:09

And you could imagine this. In the first case,

41:13

"A," you leave and say, "Oh, God, that was terrible.

41:16

Oh." "B," you leave and say,

41:18

"Oh, that was mildly painful. There was something terrible in

41:22

the middle there but it ended okay, mild pain."

41:24

It turns out, in general, endings matter a

41:27

lot. Kahneman did his research with

41:30

– both in a laboratory where you could make – give people

41:33

mild pain by getting them to stick their hand in freezing

41:37

cold water and with people undergoing extremely painful

41:40

colonoscopy procedures. And it turns out that if you

41:44

want to give people a good memory, or a less bad memory,

41:48

of a horrible event topping them off with some mild pain

41:53

will do the trick. In the end, endings matter.

41:58

Both of these examples, a party that's hugely fun for

42:02

ninety percent, then the last ten percent

42:05

somebody slaps you in the face and pours dip on you or

42:09

something-- [laughter] So,

42:11

ninety percent of good stuff, ten percent bad stuff,

42:15

versus ninety percent people are slapping you and pouring dip

42:19

on you [laughter] but then ten percent,

42:22

whoa, that was a really good--when you think back on it,

42:26

if you just added it up, "A" would be much better but

42:31

"B" has this huge pull because of the power of how things end

42:38

so endings matter. So, I'm going to end things now.

42:43

I'm first going to do a few things.

42:45

Before saying anything more, I want to thank the teaching

42:48

fellows. There's Sunny Bang,

42:50

Erik Cheries, Jane Erickson,

42:52

Izzat Jarudi, Greg Laun, and Koleen McCrink.

42:55

I think they did a superb job. [applause]

43:02

We've basically reviewed all the psychology.

43:10

Here is a promissory note we started with at the beginning of

43:14

this semester. I think you are now in a

43:17

position to answer or at least consider answers about these

43:23

topics, about topics such as dreams,

43:25

testimony, disgust, memory, depression,

43:28

language, humor, and even a little bit

43:31

about good and evil. This is an--a broad intro

43:35

survey class, and the field of psychology is

43:38

broad and we've just gotten started.

43:42

If you're interested, this is a great department.

43:46

There are some amazing scholars here and some amazing teachers

43:50

and there are courses that go into detail about just about

43:53

every topic I talked about. If you're interested in memory

43:58

or social interaction or mental illness, I could point you to

44:02

some great courses. I'm not taking any sophomore

44:05

advisees next year because I'm on leave in the fall but you

44:08

should feel free to come talk to me if you want any specific

44:12

advice or suggestions. Now, I know not all of you are

44:16

going to end up majoring in psychology.

44:19

Some of you will choose cognitive science instead

44:22

[laughter] but on a more serious note I

44:25

know for some of you this is the last--maybe the first but the

44:29

last psychology class you'll ever take.

44:32

And so I want to close this course by emphasizing two

44:36

themes. The first one is a bit of

44:40

humility. There are some very basic

44:42

questions about the mind – and I've tried to be honest about

44:46

this throughout the course--There are some very

44:48

basic questions about the mind that nobody knows the answer to

44:51

yet. We know the brain is the source

44:54

of mental life but we don't have any understanding at all about

44:58

exactly how this happens, about how a physical object,

45:01

a lump of meat, can give rise to conscious

45:04

experience. We know that about half of the

45:07

variants in personality, about half the differences

45:09

between people, are due to genetic factors but

45:12

we don't know how to explain where the other half happens.

45:16

It has to be experienced but we have no real good theories of

45:20

the sort of experience that makes one person adventurous and

45:24

another one timid, one bitter and one satisfied.

45:28

We know a lot about the social influences that can drive people

45:32

to do terrible things to one another but we don't know the

45:36

answer to the maybe harder question of why some of us--some

45:39

people are immune to these influences,

45:42

why some people do good things, perhaps even heroic things,

45:46

regardless of the circumstances that they find themselves in.

45:50

So, there's an enormous amount left to do.

45:53

It's an exciting field just because there's just so much

45:57

more we need to understand. The second theme is more

46:01

optimistic. And this is the idea that we're

46:03

going to eventually come to answer these questions and many

46:07

more questions through the sorts of methods we've been discussing

46:11

this semester, through constructing scientific

46:14

theories, evolution--evolutionary,

46:16

neurological, developmental,

46:18

computational and testing them through experimental and

46:22

observational methods. This is the idea that,

46:25

in the end, the most important and intimate aspects of

46:29

ourselves, our beliefs and emotions,

46:31

our capacities to make decisions, even our sense of

46:34

right and wrong can be explained through constructing and testing

46:37

scientific hypotheses. Now, the reason why I'm

46:40

optimistic is I think there's been some success stories where

46:43

we really have learned some surprising and important things

46:46

about the mind and there's no reason to expect this way of

46:49

proceeding to fail us in the future.

46:51

In my very--in the very first class on the brain I ended by

46:56

talking about people's worries here,

46:58

and I'll be honest, that some people find it a

47:02

scary prospect. Some people believe that a

47:05

scientific approach to the mind takes the "special-ness" away

47:09

from people, that it diminishes us somehow.

47:12

And I don't agree. If there's anything I've tried

47:16

to persuade you through the course, it's that the more you

47:19

look at the mind and how it works from a serious scientific

47:22

point of view the more you come to appreciate its complexities,

47:25

uniqueness, and its beauty. This has been a great course to

47:29

teach. Thank you for coming and good

47:32

luck on the Final.

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