How i found out my fiance of 7 years was cheating on me

You guys obviously know what this video

is about. It's in my freaking title and

everything. I got engaged last year on

17th October. My partner and I are only

22 years old. We wanted to get married

because we were together for at that

point it was 6 years. Now we're together

for seven. We were together for 7 years.

He's still finishing year three. He

doesn't have a full-time job, no

license, no army. And don't get me

wrong, I was okay with all that. In

fact, I told him not to worry about it

because we were still young. We were

like only 22. I saw a lot of potential

in like our future. At that point in

time, he treats me really well, like a

queen, bro. He treats me like a freaking

queen.

And he cared for me really well as well.

We had three major breakups during our

seven years, 2020, 2022, and then last

year when he asked to break up. I'm at a

stage whereby we have planned I have

planned 100% of the wedding. We have

paid deposit for all our wedding

vendors.

And by the way, I'm still recovering

from my jaw surgery. So if my jaw is

like a bit, you know, weirdly shaped is

because of that it still swelled that we

literally wanted to video for the June

2026 video. I'm going to tell you guys

the story in chronological order, not by

which period of time each incident

occurred. And I made a script so that I

can have the full like evidence to show

you guys and like not forget anything.

This might be a bit jaggy to some of

youall, but like it's very important

that you guys know the context of what

happened and what led me to finding out

about this. On 2nd May 2026,

that's where it started. My fiance

wanted to have a boys night with his

friends at the club. Before this,

everything was good between us. It was

like a very healthy relationship in my

opinion. He did ask me four to five days

before if he could go and then like I

agreed. But on the date itself, I don't

know why I was very emotional. I lashed

out at him for going without me because

like I could go but he like don't want

me to come and like when I go club I

will ask him I'll always ask him if he

want to go with me. He always say no but

I get it was like boys night and all. So

maybe that's why he didn't ask me but

that's not important. I cash out on the

day on text. I said like a lot of

hurtful stuff. So I forwarded what my

friend said.

She said it as a joke but she said

divorce that red flag and then I forward

it to my private Telegram channel. 2

days later I got my period. So like you

know I was literally having PMS. We all

know that your PMS comes like a few days

before your period. And I was like, "Oh,

so that's why I was acting a bit crazy,

but actually it was feminine intuition."

Anyways, we really consult after my

crash out. And then 2 weeks later, from

2nd May onwards, he started being very

cold towards me. Like within the two

weeks from the second June, he started

being very very cold towards me. He told

me that it was because he was really

busy with good projects and school work.

That's why he was like treating me like

that. He was he was doing he was having

a lot of good projects like um dude but

it didn't explain his behavior towards

me because I'm like why are you treating

me like that just cuz you're busy? Then

in the future if you're busy how like

I'm busy but if I'm busy I'm always busy

but I don't treat him like that. And I

think it was either on 16 17th May when

I stayed over at his house. I question

him. I kept questioning him until he

told me the truth. He was acting cold

cuz he couldn't get over what I

forwarded

voice that reflect what my friend um

sent me that I forward to my private

telegram channel. like he couldn't get

over the fact and then he also say like

like you don't understand why I crash

out that day and like how I was too

emotionally dependent on him. I

apologized very very sincerely cuz I

knew it was my fault and I asked him if

he needed some space to cuz he was

acting super cold towards me like as if

he didn't want me there at all and at

that point like I would usually stay

over almost every night at his house. He

said, "Yeah, he wants like to try the

break." And then I said that during the

break we should communicate with each

other. It shouldn't be like a break

where you know we break then we a lot of

people a lot of couples they break then

they break up. But I said if you want a

break this has to be like cuz we are

literally engaged. I want you to like

communicate with me and tell me you know

like talk to me just maybe not meeting

up long. I just told him to tell me when

he's ready to like end the break and I

assume it will be about a week. During

this one week, right, I reflected so

much about like my actions and my crash

out on second May. I met up my friends

to spend time with them. Now that I go

cycling, usually I only meet my friends

like once a month. So now I was like

meeting my friends a lot because I was

like thinking maybe I do rely too emot

I'm too emotionally dependent on him. We

spend almost every day together.

We spend pretty much every day together.

And I told my friend about the comment

that she made. I was like maybe um cuz I

apologized to him really so much. He

couldn't get over. I was thinking if my

friend apologized to me for making that

text then maybe he could like

try and like overcome this. So I sent

this to my friend and I also sent him

and he thumbs up the message on 23rd

May. He told me that he was

reconsidering our engagement because of

what happened the crash out and the

text. He cannot get over that text. I

was like spiraling cuz I was like freak

I freaking effed up with the crashing

with the crash out on that day on that

day and you know so I asked him to call

me I was like can you please give me two

weeks 3 weeks can you please give me 3

weeks to try and change your mind about

ending the engagement

he told me that he'll give me two weeks

instead of 3 weeks this man that I had

from 23rd May until 6th June to try and

convince him not to end our engagement

over that crash and the forward text I

want to remind everybody that the crash

is on text. Okay. Not physically,

not like crazy crazy, you know. So, I

was like like I need to fix it. You

know, my saying my friend wasn't enough.

Apologizing wasn't enough. Trying to

like change wasn't enough. So, during

this one week, I made a boo basket for

him. Contain stuff I knew that he

needed. I baked his favorite treats,

cookies and honey conflicts. I made an

envelope with coupons, weekend tickets,

an apology letter I wrote for my heart

because at this point it was like really

reflecting on my actions. And I was

like, even though I didn't think that

the crash shot was worth ending a

freaking sevenyear relationship and an

engagement with everything planned

really, I didn't think it was worth

ending, but I wanted to see things from

his perspective. So, I wanted to prove

to him that I can change, I guess, and

not cash out like that again. And that I

was going to be less emotionally

dependent on him. In 28th May, I went

over to his house to pass him the

basket. I was supposed to sleep over at

his house. I didn't sleep over for like

2 weeks, 3 weeks already. But I was so

excited to

meet him after so long and he took me so

last minute. He didn't want me to stay

over. But either ways, I respected his

decision because I don't want to push

him and I just gave him the blue basket

and then I read the apology letter to

him. Then we spent some time and then I

went home. On 31st May, I brought him to

like Bhouse Spa to spend some time with

me and then we ate dinner. Keep in mind

I only have two weeks to try and change

his mind and like make him want to

continue our engagement. He also just

started his internship. So he would

avoid meeting me by telling me he was

sick and then it's very easy to it's

like such an easy excuse because I

wouldn't want to get sick, right? So I

wouldn't meet him and he's like he can

it gives him like 3 to 4 days of like

not meeting me. So remember the fact

that he tell me he was sick during this

week.

The next time we met was on Sunday 7th

June to watch back rooms. We had dinner

and we decided that he was going to tell

me about his decision on 10 June. But I

wanted to see how he was feeling anyway

cuz it was only 3 days away from 10

June. During these two weeks, I was only

able to meet him like three times to

spend time with him and you know correct

my mistakes. But I didn't push because I

wanted to give him the space that he

needed to think about it. I asked him

which decision are you swaying towards

too? He was like it's still swaying

heavily towards ending the engagement.

Well, when I hear that, well, I I want

to cry. But I was in the restaurant, so

I didn't say [ __ ] And we had an hour

before the movie start. So, I keep

talking. I thought very unfair. You tell

me you gave me two weeks, then you only

made me three times. You didn't let me

like stay over at your house at all. We

didn't even text. I just we just good

morning, good night. Because I wanted to

respect his face. I thought he needed

the space to he was hanging out with his

friends more than like being alone to

reflect on like the relationship whether

he really wants to end. So, I asked him,

can you like don't tell me sh you want

to end engagement? Can you like tell me

if you want to like try for 2 weeks?

Because in my mind it's like really

because of that crush. I cannot I cannot

accept the fact that he wanted to end

because of that crash out. If he told me

it was like you know something else then

okay okay but you telling me you want to

end the engagement over one crash out

and one bloody forwarded t it doesn't

make any sense. So I told him on 10 can

you tell me if you want to try for

another like two weeks and then this

time these two weeks you actually put

effort into a relationship instead of

like ending it straight away. Then now I

had to wait until 10 June whether he

want to end the engagement or want to

try my [clears throat] method of

continuing for 2 weeks. and then him

trying in the process too. I was very

desperate to a point where I was texting

his best friend and I we together for

six, seven years, right? I've never once

texted any of his friends to help me. I

texted his friend. My fianceé told me he

couldn't get over the text because of

the fact that in his eyes I wasn't

taking the engagement seriously. That's

what he told me. I told him like how am

I not taking it seriously? You seen

everything that I'm doing to try and

make up for that mistake that I did for

that mistake for the crash for

forwarding what my friend said and then

you are the one wanting to end the

engagement. Who's the one not taking the

engagement seriously? I texted his

friend hoping that he could talk some

sense into my fianceé. Fast forward to

Tenjun. I was shaking my boots. I

couldn't eat because I was so nervous

and like I went over his house to stay

over on tenjun. Then he when we talked,

he agreed. He agreed that he took too

much advantage of the space that I gave

and he agreed that it wasn't fair for

me. So he told me that he want to try

for 2 weeks. He talked to his friends

and he like agreed that it wasn't fair

for me. But he told me that he don't

guarantee me that within like after two

weeks he will still want to continue the

engagement. I was still very happy

because I felt like he gave me another

chance. So we had a good conversation

during dinner and honestly the past I

was like very out with what he was doing

like why are you behaving like this like

it's not that deep. It I don't think it

was ever that deep and I was right. So I

stayed over on 10 to 11th June. The next

day on 11th June,

he went off to work first cuz his intern

starts, you know, his intern started. So

I was in his room alone. His iPad was

there. I went to like snoop on his iPad

because I don't know feminine intuition.

I found this note that he wrote

yesterday

and he take a photo of it.

Huh? My heart sank when I read this. I'm

going to give you some context on this

girl. Let's call her PN. This girl is

his classmate in Poly. Last year I

repeatedly told him I don't want him to

talk to her because I knew for a fact

that she homeed one of his classmates

relationship. The point where guy's

girlfriend ask him to ask him to choose

between her or P. What? Hey sister, have

some self respect for yourself. Why you

asking another guy to ch anyways? I

didn't I didn't like the vibes family in

intuition. You know, I told him not to

talk to her. Last year on 27th August

2025, I found out that he had been

calling her on this call almost every

night for the past like 2 to 3 months.

He would lie to me that he was sleeping

and then calling her afterwards.

That was a period of time when he asked

me to break up. And actually during

these six years together, he had never

once brought breakup to me. Only when we

got back together, after we got back

together, then I found out about the

Discord calls. He told me that he was

calling purely to do school project

because they were like grouped together.

He said that he don't have a choice of

choosing his own teammates and him and

the girl was just all in a lot of group

projects together and their groupmates

do not do any work. None of their

groupmates in every one of the projects

don't do any work. So it was only him

and her doing the group project

together. And yeah, they call purely to

do school work and nothing else. I

scolded him when I found out cuz like

why the hell you calling another girl?

Why the hell are you lying to me that

you calling another girl? Because I also

scaled a girl because you know that he

has a girlfriend. So why are you calling

him every night when you know he has a

girlfriend? I don't care if it's school

project or whatever. Like you are

calling him for so long. That's

literally a call for 7 hours. So I

texted her. Okay, I get that my message

was a bit childish, but I didn't want to

say so much. Then she sent me this text

of her site of the story to Xavier's

WhatsApp. They both have given me the

same story. Exactly the same.

And I have a very good impression of my

fianceé. I didn't I didn't believe that

he would be like cheating on me and like

I have I just didn't believe that he

could do this kind of thing. So I

believe him cuz I was like since this

girl say the same thing him he say the

same thing to me. I was like okay fine.

I'm just going to forget about it and

then move on. I guess I was very naive

because like I will believe what you

tell me. He promised me like he se his

mother, father, everybody on his entire

life, nothing happening. But either

ways, I told him I do not ever want to

see her name

ever again. If I see her name again, I'm

just going to break up him. That's why I

told him I got to tell him this. I

remember telling him this. Also, now you

know the context behind this PN girl.

The fact that last time he wanted to

break up during the the period of time

that the Discord calls kept happening

and then now he wanted to end the

engagement and then I see her name

again.

The same girl was involved during both

times.

Everything like clicked to me. I'm

someone who wears that heartless sleeve.

I confronted him instantly about the

note. You guys can see what he say about

the note. Basically, he's telling me,

you know, the note didn't mean anything.

He wanted to write down good qualities

he wish I had. I asked him why her of

all people on the paper. He said he

randomly thought of a name. He didn't

even know if this traits of her was

accurate, but he admitted to feeling

he admitted to having infatuation for

her last year when we were having

problems. And he keeps saying it's not

really feelings. It's just a bit of

infatuation cuz like she's nice. Then I

was like, "Huh? Am I supposed to be

worried about every nice girl from now

on?"

Keep in mind that this dude wanted to

end the engagement over the forwarded

text that I forward. He kept emphasizing

at that point. Now he telling me that

it's because of why you crash up. But at

that point time he keep emphasizing on

the fact that I forwarded the divorce

that red flag command. But this guy can

write down a comparison note

of me and another girl and then take a

photo of it to discuss with his friend

Pu. Let's call him Pu.

Anyways, in the end I want to move past

this cuz I still love this man a lot and

he keeps telling me he keeps telling me

nothing going on. He keeps giving me

these excuses. So like I don't

understand why are you I don't

understand like cuz like he tell me all

this then okay I want to move past it

because he wants to move past it. If he

wants to move past it with me then okay

fine I believe I wanted to believe that

this note really didn't mean anything

but I was still like a bit sus. I need

to go through his phone to see if like

there's anything going on. On 13th June

I stayed over at his house again. I

looked through his phone and then took

like random pics of anything that I

thought was suspicious. When I first saw

this, I didn't think much of it. Even

though he's been going to this block,

okay, this block is going to be

extremely important. Let's call this

place how block ABC. I'm not going to

say that exact blog. I'm not going to

dox anybody. So yeah, I was concerned on

why he was spending $400 on GR at that

point when he freaking owes me money for

like the wedding prep. Anyways, the next

morning I took this screenshot and I

went about my day as usual. I was doing

my client's right when it suddenly hit

me, bro. I was like, "Wait a second." I

remember last year confronting him about

a place that he kept grabbing to and he

was like at Hangto [clears throat] if

I'm not wrong. I remember that I asked

him why he always go there and he kept

telling me that it's a place where he

goes with his friends after CCA

to eat and I was confused like NYP and

Hang is not NYP

you need to like at least grab down

there or like it will take a few bus got

a lot of food to eat. I stayed at Amoko

before. There's a lot of food to eat.

Why y'all go directly to Halong just for

the copy dump? Then this guy was telling

me his entire CCA friends grabbed down

to this place to eat. I believed him. I

believed him back then. Anyways, it

clicked to me. Then I go and check his

grab history for 2025. It was the exact

same block Hung ABC. It was the exact

same block he kept going last year when

we were having problems. And then I'm

going to show you guys a few examples of

how he would lie to me, but he was

actually at Block ABC 16th May 2026. So,

we're having our break. Okay, remember

that we're having our break. He left

Hango ABC to home at 11:33 p.m. But I'm

sending our wedding blind box that I

created and stuff. He's telling me I'm

at my grandma's house talking and

spending time with two of them. I'm

leaving my phone on site to charge. I

need to help them with the fan. What

he's telling me? so detailed on what

he's doing at his grandma's house, but

he was at Hunglock ABC. Okay. 17th May

2026, the next day he searched PN up on

his Instagram.

They were having some T program. So as

part of the internet, so all of them had

like T public accounts. He searched her

up and I argue with him cuz I told him I

I told him last year, I don't see her

name on your phone. And he tell me I'm

hung up about the history. He was like,

you know, the history of was just us

doing work. Then he tell me why are you

still angry about it now? Blah blah

blah. Okay, let's go back to like the

grapes there. I confronted him about the

situation because at this point of time

I don't know who stays there and why he

was lying to me a lot telling me he's at

home at school when he's at block Hong

Kong ABC. He told me that his friend

let's call him Pishua stays at block

ABC. He would always come here with him

and maybe some friends, but mainly

Pishua. And then he told me that he lied

to me because he said that I would get

angry if he hangs out with his friends.

I guess it comes off like that sometimes

cuz I'm like, why you don't want to

spend time instead? I guess it's valid

his reason. I still felt that there was

something off with this story. On 14th

and 15th June, I consulted a tarot

reader, which was my friend's sister.

Before you guys say anything, I know

that tarot reading isn't 100% accurate,

but it's a good way to like guide you on

your decisions. And I knew that whatever

the tarot reader said, I was going to

take it with a pinch of salt. So, I

asked him, is he actively cheating? She

says that there's someone he's growing

an emotional attachment to. Then I do

another round of readings like what is

he truly doing when he's visiting this

location? Then I ask him, I suspect the

name is P, the person that he's growing

an emotional attachment with. All cuts

point to yes. Okay. All cuts point to

yes. Anyways, I have this in England

that Pisha doesn't stay at Block Hawk on

ABC. Just nice. I know of someone who

has a fake account and I ask that fake

account to help me catfish Pisha and see

if the my friend could ask Pisha like a

bit of like you know where his location

is. Like it doesn't have to be his exact

blog. Just tell me like you stay. If you

tell me you stay Hong Kong, then okay, I

don't need to worry about the location

anymore. I don't know how but like he go

and tell my friend his freaking blog and

everything. And he doesn't stay at Hong

Kong. I'm not going to tell you guys

where he stay. I'm not here to talk to

anybody. He doesn't stay at Hong Kong.

But to go to block Hong Kong ABC from

his house, it will probably take bus a

bus ride off about five stops. So my

fiance lie again. I find out that my

fiance was lying again that his friend

Pishwa stays here. When he doesn't, I go

and confront him. This time he tell me

block ABC Hang is actually a supper spot

where he goes with his friends and

Pishwa. I ask him the place you go got

so bloody good, man. You stay here until

so long. Why are you lying? You go to

people's house usually go to a copy

nearby to eat. Why you taking five bus

stops to go to block ABC Hang just to

eat supper? Mind you, this man is very

lazy with me. He doesn't like to travel.

When we at his house, he always want to

go to like the mall right beside. He

doesn't ever want to go to anywhere

else. I'm very confused. So why are you

acting like this with like your friends

then? And he has never once grabbed to

Pishwa's actual address. So he said that

him and his friends like to chill at

block ABC Hang. And the reason why he

like is because he will always smoke and

drink here. I don't like it when he

smokes or drink. I don't even know he's

smoking. I told him I don't like smokers

since the start. I didn't even know he

was smoking you know. So like hearing

that I was like what the hell? Then it

made sense to me again because you know

I don't like him smoking. But he still

denying any involvement of any girls. He

tell me no girl involved. I asked him so

is he like got go with like some girls

here? He say no. Tell me no. I check his

gra again. 16 May he boot from ankle

point to block ABC. He reached block ABC

at 6:00 p.m. He leaves block ABC at

11:42 p.m. You tell me you stay at a

supper spot for 6 hours. A supper so

good you stay here for 6 hours and you

don't go anywhere else. You know, you go

you booked to block ABC then you leave

block ABC. So you are just staying at

block ABC for 6 hours. Right. At this

point he's telling me that he doesn't

know anybody who stays at this block. He

tell me he none of his friends stay at

block ABC. How come? And I I was looking

around the block. Max, right? Is like

got one dim sum place. If you're always

coming here for supper, why are you not

booking to the dim sum place or like the

cop? Why are you booking directly to the

block ABC? He's telling me he booked to

block ABC then go like you know supper

then come back to block ABC to go home.

It doesn't make sense. So I had a

feeling that this is where the PN

staying right. You remember how she had

the school public TP account on

Instagram? She had posted this post

commuting to work. I'm not going to show

you guys the post later yall like find

out her address. So like let's keep it

lowkey. Okay. My best friend went to

zoom into the photo. I'm going to show

an example. This an example. This is not

her her photo. An example of like the

the car commuting to work. Then there's

like a map and then this map. We go to

Google Maps and then we see block ABC

right there. The road is exactly the

same. It's exactly the same. So we're

like, "Oh shit." So she does stay at

Hong Kong. Okay. We don't know any

confirmation that she stays at block. We

just know that she stay at Hong Kong.

her LinkedIn her mention mentioned like

secondary and primary schools. Her

primary school was a seven minute walk

from block ABC.

Her secondary school was like a

30-minute bus, right? But still very

close. We all know that secondary and

primary school have to be close by to

each other. And I keep confronting Z

every time I find out new information.

When I tell him right, I know P stays

there. He not even shocked, bro. Like I

at this point, I don't have any

confirmation that she stays at that

exact block. But I wanted to tell him

like I I pretended confirm I know P

stays at vlog ABC. He not even shock

bro. He just tell me like huh how will

you even know blah blah you know but he

say I don't know where she stay but how

how you know I told him that I saw

through the her Instagram account just

nice the same time I bought it she

privates that account. Coincidence

fast forward a few more days later I was

at Malaysia. One of my friends was very

curious about vlog ABC. He wanted to go

walk the rounds like see if there's

anything suspicious he could help to for

me to figure out the truth. He went to

block ABC and there was so much P that

she posted that I managed to assess. It

was her outfit check in her outside her

house or something like it's a wall.

It's just a blank wall. But right, we

inspected every single crack on the

wall. I don't know how. Just nice. My

friend was standing beside the wall that

she was taking a photo at. Just nice,

you know. And the wall is down to

detail. The cracks, the bloody cracks on

every single inch of the photo is

exactly the same. So, we're like, [ __ ]

she actually stays at block ABC. We know

for a fact that now she stays at block

ABC. This is my confirmation that not

only does she stay at How, she stays at

block ABC and he's been grabbing back

and forth to this place and he's been

lying about why he's grabbing her. We

have the knowledge of the comparison

note where he dead writes her whole name

and compares me and her in a

relationship. We have the info that she

stays here. He's been lying about

everything. This guy right do not want

to fess up. So I was like, "Okay, maybe

I can talk to her."

>> Okay, guys. We're on the way now. Stupid

ass zigger. Sh me. Then I need to waste

my time coming down to confront some

other annoying. Seriously, I could be

doing so much more things with my time.

No, you make me waste my time. Yeah,

seriously.

>> Me and my friends went to area. We sent

her a message because in this time at

this time I really very drained already.

Like every everything that we getting

right is like I'm getting fed on

breadcrumbs. everything I had to own

self like dig up because nobody wants to

tell me the truth and I wanted to

confront her. I wanted her to admit, you

know, that him, her and Z had something

going on because they both keep denying

it. I sent her a message. I told her

like, I just want to talk. I genuinely

just want to talk. We gave her by 9:00

p.m. to come down and we not I'm not

here to slap you, to punch you. Just

tell me the truth, please. I just want

to know the truth. Like genuinely, I'm

just seeking for the truth. Okay. So,

exactly at 8:55 p.m. she came down.

She kept walking past me and my friends

and just keep continue walking. I was

very confused like is this the girl or

not? I'm a bit shocked. Anyways, I

wanted to talk to her alone because I

didn't want her to feel like we're gang

up on her. So, I tap her shoulder

because I'm seriously here just to talk

to you. I pull for a chat and then I

like talk to her

because like

genuinely at this point I just want to

know like what's going on. You didn't

ask everything because like um I think

we can sit here.

>> So for like the past month he's been

coming here.

>> Yeah.

>> Okay. I want to know if he has been

going to your house.

>> No. What the

>> No. Okay.

>> Okay.

>> Okay.

>> Okay. Okay. To be very honest,

>> I feel like I thought like the [ __ ]

already happened

>> ended last year actually.

>> Sorry. Yeah.

>> It's okay. So, uh-huh.

>> I think

um whatever I said to you in the message

already.

>> Uh-huh.

>> Yeah. Actually, I can't remember what I

said, but like if you realize, I talked

to her very nicely because like I don't

have any confirmation. She denied

everything. And not going to lie, I was

prepared for every scenario except for

her denying anything, any involvement.

And when I saw her face, I also cannot

believe like this man was cheating on me

with this girl. So, I couldn't take

myself seriously. After five minutes

I left and then I go and find my

friends. Then they go and school me like

why you so nice. I grew her a bit more.

I was like I I felt bad. I felt bad for

if like really nothing going. Then I go

and waste the time. They they say that

they want to talk to her again. Then we

ask her if she can meet us for a while.

Then she say okay sure. So now this time

my two friends were sitting with me cuz

they they were going to do like the

talking for me in case I forget

anything. She agreed to meet us. We sat

down and guys I bloody scared of cat

bro. Kina this place got three cats.

Yeah, [gasps] this place got three

freaking cat. Then why losing aura, bro?

I over here jumping on the table. I

bloody scared of the cat. So yeah, my

friend and I talked to her for about an

hour. Her story

exactly the same as it's the same thing

like last year when they both give me

the same story, but this time it's very

eerily similar. I'm going to insert

parts of the convo. She will tell me

they are not close to a point where he

will even know where I stay. But the

problem is if you know like you stay

here then he keep grabbing here cannot

be like you know the world so small.

Yeah. That's why we just like want to

know like

>> you never see ever see him.

>> Yeah. Ever see him?

>> Yeah. Never ever.

>> So you also never bring him.

>> Have you given him your home attention

before anything? Was there any reason?

>> We're not so close.

>> We're not so close to the point you know

where I would give him my home address.

I I know maybe we really have nothing

but it's like you know we just want like

hopefully maybe you got maybe like the

last bit of morals or maybe like like

not not that but like

>> but I really like honestly

>> yeah that nothing going on.

>> Yeah. So we're just hoping like you know

like so nothing.

>> Can I ask like how how how um how are

you feeling right now?

>> I'm like a bit nervous. Not really

nervous once but like very con you're

not scared right that we getting out of

you not no TV

anything

>> I wouldn't [laughter]

violence never an answer

>> okay I know you all want to seek

clarifications from myself so I

understand that that's why like I'm

trying to give you whatever I can also

tell me professionals nothing going on

absolutely nothing going on between them

>> confusing and I'm sure like from you can

kind

uh sympathize the truth.

>> Yeah. So it's it's not that we want to

say that you're guilty or anything. It's

just that we just need the truth so that

we can move on from here.

>> Yeah. Because like he invited to take

this.

So I like

also like okay I assume that you guys

and then you have like this story on and

probably like tell you like not to tell

you anything like for the sake of like

protecting your image and stuff but

honestly I have all the evidence really

>> trying to clear your name cuz if you

have nothing to do with it then you'll

just be focused on him but if you can

tell some information like if you were

to tell me now I would

just for your side and just focus on him

because he's also it takes two hands.

>> Correct. And also because I mean you

really see us here you already know that

we got like enough evidence that like

you know pointing everything towards you

>> everything. So we just

>> and I

>> Yeah. So we just want give you one last

chance to come like you know say

anything if you have

>> I think from my side I don't know about

him but like like what I've always been

telling you like we're just like

professional in a way something sus

about her right

we asked her can you okay can you if you

want to prove to us right cuz like all

evidence pointing towards you and him

can you just do us one favor can you go

and call him on your phone then we want

to see how he like reacts to call and if

she's not guilty she'll just call right

but she kept refusing [laughter] to call

And her reason for refusing is that she

feels uncomfortable doing it because

he's attached blah blah blah. Huh? Well,

she can say all this. It's crazy because

we all know she's lying

>> in a sense like saying that evidence is

going to get me. But

>> okay, then can you do us one favor?

>> You call Z.

>> Yeah. Who was speak?

>> Why?

>> I I don't want to be doing that cuz like

>> Yeah. What?

>> Because what?

>> Like I don't know. Like it's just

>> a bit.

>> Yeah.

>> If she really not if she really never do

anything wrong, it's a bit

uncomfortable.

>> Okay.

>> Yeah. But the last thing you do

quite uncomfortable with that cuz like I

think right now a lot of things is like

in my head now you know then like your

child saying

like also then frustrated.

>> Yeah.

But okay, if like if you have nothing to

hide, you say, "Well, why not call him

and pull a sticker?"

>> Okay.

>> For my morals in a way, I feel like I

don't really want to be touching like or

like calling or like texting

>> someone's fiance.

>> Like someone who is already engaged,

>> but she's here and she's like, "She's

here like

>> and but at that point in time, I believe

so." I think I very gullible but I'm I'm

going to stop being so gullible because

oh I swear I'm believing everything

everybody tells me and I didn't I keep

telling my friends not to force her to

call cuz I was like yeah like people

phone people's privacy like don't force

her you know but my friend say something

to me my friend say something on me

imagine yourself in the shoes you not

guilty you see then talk to us for 1

hour for what I'll just show you my

phone and then I tell you I will just

throw my phone to you it's not that deep

it's just a call after we left my

friends [clears throat] made like a list

on why we think she's lying

The first grab he books to block ABC

this year 2026 right was on 29th April.

Our fight was on 2nd May. So in my mind

like was he just using this as an excuse

like my one crash out as an excuse to

end the engagement? 20th May,

wished him 520 at 12:00 a.m., but he was

at her house until 12:40 a.m. Let's not

forget how during the two weeks when I

had to convince him to give us another

shot, he said that he was at home having

sro and sick, but bro was actually at

her house cuz remember he told me he was

sick but he was at block ABC. How come

at our house 2nd June he was having in

which ends at 6:00 p.m. Doesn't reply me

until 11:02. tells me at 11:02 that he

was napping

but he left her house at 10:22. Bro

ended in turn at 6:00 or maybe he end

earlier and I just didn't know. Made his

way from Pioneer all the way to Hang

just to spend time with her for a few

hours. Then grabs back home. I asked him

if I could sleep over the next day. He

tells me he's lowkey feeling sick. Third

June tells me after in turn he's going

home because he feels sick and at 7:13

p.m. says he's popping two panels in and

was taking and was going to sleep but

leaves block ABC at 11 p.m.

10 June tries booking grab from his

intern workplace to Hang at Hang Block

ABC at 12:00 p.m. His break I know that

his break is at 12 p.m. and then he ends

at 6 p.m. So I'm not sure what could be

happening here. Maybe he took half day

leave or something. Then he probably

take a to place after after not being

able to find a grab. And mind you, we

met on 10 June night time. So he wanted

to maybe meet her for like one last time

or something. Remember guys, I slept

over that day and I find out the

comparison note the next day. Let me

bring you guys back to 2025. On 9th June

2025 last year, he went to fix his

computer. He literally grabs from the

computer place,

reaches Hokkang at Hong Kong ABC at 7:13

p.m. Then leaves block ABC Hang at 7:22

p.m. Keep in mind this grab the time on

the grab is like what time you get

picked up. So bro really probably book

the book the grab instantly. I'm very

confused. You tell me this is a spot

then you stay here for 2 minutes for

what? He tell me that I confronted him.

He told me that his friend Pisha went to

follow him to fix the computer and he

wanted to share gra to go to block ABC.

I was like he doesn't even stay here.

What do you mean? He tells me Pisha

wanted to grab supper from block ABC. So

that's why they booked grab that and

then they wanted to smoke it. Smoke for

2 minutes. I'm like why you cannot smoke

at like the computer place outside the

mall? Why must you book directly to

block ABC to smoke you? That's not even

a smoking. It's just a random block.

Then he tells me, you see, like I can't

spend time with him on the grab there

like that.

Obviously, it's either to send her back

or like, you know, see her for 2 minutes

or something. This happens multiple

times. But the one that takes the

freaking cake, I tell you, this fell

27th July 2025

at 9:52

to 11:06. So, he reaches Haang ABC at

11:06 p.m. No grab shown home. 28th July

2025. Grabs at 10:48 a.m. to 11:05 a.m.

from block ABC to NYP's

11:22 a.m. 11:20 a.m. NYP to home. This

is just plain evidence that he stayed

over. You tell me you don't know any of

your friends who stay at this block. You

tell me none of your friends stay at

this block. Then you you What are you

doing? You sleep at the staircase. you

sleep at the freaking stage or what?

Guess what his excuse was this time? He

he told me he was working which is true.

I have proof that he was like working

that day because from our conversation

he told me that just nice P was working

with him like coincidentally she was

working with him and at the end of the

shift she tried booking grab but there's

no car. So he helps her book a grab

and then he she pays him in cash. Then

the next day they had presentation in

school and she was going to be late but

again she can't book any grab to school.

So then then again he helps book her

grab to school. If you believe this

right I got some flying pics I can sell

you. And this contradicts everything

because let's say this story is correct

right means this guy can book two times

grab for her.

That means he knows where she stays on.

So just nice the same month you keep

going there. Just nice right? You

literally go there. You literally go to

block ABC the day before. Then the next

day you go again and then you're telling

me it's actually to book for her. So you

know, you have the information that oh P

stays at Block ABC because she admits to

booking GR for her. And remember what

happened when we confronted her? She

tells us that they're not close to a

point where she would give him her

address, but she clearly did if he was

booking grab for her. This mean that

they are both lying to us again. 10 July

2025.

This period of time when we were having

problems, we're not even having much

problems honestly at this point in time.

He just keep telling me that he wants to

stay back in school to do his group

projects because he's he's alone. He

tells me he's always alone doing school

projects, you know, alone and stuff.

Tells me he's doing work then going home

at 11:44 p.m. Tells me that he's at Bona

Vista and there's no bus home. So, he's

booking Grab from Bona Vista to home.

Bona Vista to home. He stayed he one

hour he got direct bus to his house. So

I was like, "Oh, understandable."

Actually was at block ABC and went home

at 11:52 p.m. 13th June.

Tells me he was having CC and support

with his teammates, but I was actually

at block ABC. 8th July 2025.

[clears throat] Tells me he's bathing

and stretching and using massage gun at

12:56 a.m.

But as you can see from the gra, bro was

at block ABC. Didn't even reach home

until 1:20 a.m. 9th July.

was having class BBQue which the PN was

also in. Tells me his teacher is drawing

them to Bishan and somehow somehow ends

up at block ABC again. Leaves block ABC

at 11:10 p.m. to home 15th July 2025.

Tells me he needs to meet his dad at

Sant for some insurance talk with like

his insurance guy. Meets meet tells me

at 1000 p.m. he's at Shirang and that

his dad will book grab for them back.

tells me that his battery is low and was

charging at Shilang at 11:54 p.m. Was

actually at Block ABC again since 10:49

p.m. Left Block ABC to home at 11:50

p.m. 16th July. You guys can just pause

to read. Okay. 16th July 2025

says at 10:06 p.m. he CCA and had a mini

argument with his CCA people and tells

me he's grabbing home pretty much I

guess from NYP

was actually at the block until 10:507

p.m. 11 August 2025

tells me he has that day says he's going

to reach home soon at 11:40 11:05 p.m.

but 9:51 p.m. He's at her block ABC her

house. No grab shown back so should be

stay over. 12th August 2025.

Tells me again he's staying in school to

do work. Tells me he's at home at 11:04.

Actually grab back to block ABC and

reach P's house at 10:03 p.m. No grab

shown back. Probably stay over. This was

our convo on 13th August 2025. And this

was the last recorded grab to her this

block from that year. I didn't think

about this much. I I don't really care.

I didn't think that he would like show

me. Like he tell me like, "Oh, Hong Kong

is just a place where his CCA friends go

to blah blah." Then I was like, "Okay,

whatever." I just believe. I didn't

really like go and like dig into it

because I'm not freaking insane. I'm

only insane now because I know that

there's something going on. Let's go

back to this year. 16th June tells me

he's having supp leaves school at 9:21

p.m. Reaches Kalang Mall at 9:41. took

probably took bus from there to G7

Cinema Live Seafood. Then he goes from

the seafood restaurant to Hong Kong ABC

at 11:55 p.m. Leaves Block ABC

at 12:17 to go home. Brother, Block ABC

is a SA spot. You go, you literally came

from a restaurant, then you go to to

spend 20 minutes at Block ABC.

I had a thought with him. You and Pisha

so close. Then what is the last

conversation? What is the last message

you have sent on 17th May? Because in

June, he was literally going telling me

he grabbing here with grabbing here to

spend time with Pisha all the time and

the way they text not even super close

or anything but they're at a point where

they can meet like five to six times a

week at this exact block. No calls,

nothing. I ask him, you call now, you

call now. You tell him meet you at block

ABC. Then I see what he says. I'll let

you guys listen to a call here.

So, do you want to go down to our kind

of supper that you just got now?

>> No.

>> Yeah.

>> Now, can you do tomorrow?

>> Uh, you let me check

right now. I'm out.

>> Okay. Okay. Never mind. But tomorrow if

you free, you are there or I'm always

there. Literally, just tell me when

you're free. I'll be talking.

>> You play football?

>> You better play football there, man.

>> Yeah, I play every Saturday, right?

>> I mean, I play Saturday, Sunday, but

like technically I'm always

I mean, I drink there, but like you say,

because I go eat and after that, if you

want to meet, I just shoot you. Just

meet me then.

>> Okay. Okay. Let me know again. Who the

hell is I here every day? What?

Saturday, Sunday, I'm always here.

Saturday and Sunday, I'm always at this.

I tell you, if I ask my friend Gochi,

right, she tell me what every Saturday,

Sunday, I just tell her to stop yapping

and just tell me yes or no, bro. The

call was so freaking fake. All my

friends thought it's fake.

And at this point, I'm very confused why

everybody's helping him cover up.

with the amount of grab to the location

last year and you telling me that you're

always here with Pisha. You assume

they're very close but he only follow

Pisha on Instagram on 23rd

23rd March 2026

but last year he was always going there

and his name Pisha's name never once

came out in our conversation before this

was confirmation to me of the cheating

and the amount of lies and secrets. I

don't have any physical proof of the

cheating part but like you can't

convince me that these evidence isn't

enough. I didn't think to the extent of

how bad the cheating was because I don't

have any proof and nobody tells me

anything. I remember the Discord calls

last year. It was the Discord calls was

from 7 June 2025 up to 9 August 2025.

It matches with the time period he keeps

going to her house from 31st May 2025

until 12th August 2025. So it matches

you know the time period is exactly the

same. I told him like how you want me to

trust you? He kept telling me he's

telling me the truth. But he can be

lying to me for like months and he

didn't even beg me to like stay, you

know, like after I find out everything.

He just keep emphasizing that he didn't

cheat and he emphasized on the fact that

he keep emphasizing on the fact that he

lost feelings for me. He said he lost a

bit. He keep emphasizing it's only a bit

of feelings I lost for you because of

the crash.

So yeah. Anyway, I went to Korea for jaw

surgery and I was supposed to tell him

my decision on whether I want to

continue the engagement. When I came

back, I was looking because I was

thinking that maybe the cheating isn't

that bad. Like it's not too bad. Maybe I

cuz I don't know what's the actual

truth. I just know that he grabbed here

a lot and stuff. I told him that I

wanted to end the engagement because

like he would tell me that he's not

enjoying his time with me as much. And

then like he finally ding me, you know,

I told him to be honest. I guess that's

him being honest. He's not enjoying the

time as much with me because of his

feelings. Even though he keeps saying

it's only a bit of feelings he lost and

it hurts me because it's like you are

the one who did all these to me. You did

all this lying cheating

and then I have to wait for you to gain

your feelings back because at that point

he also tell me he don't know whether he

want to continue that. He don't know if

it's best to continue the engagement

with with his feelings like that. So I

had to wait for him. He told me that he

wanted to try he wanted to try fix the

relationship and he told me to wait

until like we agreed to wait until end

July. But then when I came back from

Korea, two days later, three days, you

cheat, you lie, you do all that. Then I

need to wait for you. It hurt me so much

to end the engagement off. But it was

like what's best for myself. I was like,

I had enough of being disrespected for 2

months. I started posting the a bit

about the cheating,

like hinting about it. I didn't even

bring up the name of any girl. I didn't

bring up the face of any girl. I didn't

bring up anything. I just hinted that he

was cheating. Suddenly, everybody from

NYP telling me the story of how they

thought how they are in school. I'll

show you guys every single message I

received. So close to a point where

people thought they were dating. Huh?

Then you know what they tell me? They

tell me that nobody told me cuz they say

that everybody thought that I knew. So

everybody think that h I posted this man

on my social media so much and I got

engaged to him all that and then I knew

about the cheating and I was subject

myself to this and that's why nobody

told me and I had a comment that said oh

people are just sending you because

sending you the same thing because they

see other people send I didn't post what

people are sending me it's only when I

compile everything then I post that

everybody's been telling me the same

story he's been so close with this girl

every single day he's to a point where

people thought they dating to a point

where there's a bubble of them because

people of people people think how sus is

but this won't send to me. I don't know

why. What's wrong? What's wrong with you

guys? I'm sorry, but what's wrong with

you guys? Do you really think that

somebody will be in such a He's in such

a public engagement and how everybody

see him. He's not even hiding the

cheating. He's publicly out here

disrespecting me to my face to other

people behind my back and then behind my

back he's telling me all this lies. Why

are you lying to my face for over a

year? It's not even just It's not even

like one month, two months, three

months. You lied to me for a year. You

proposed to me in the middle of your

cheating.

You make us plan a whole ass wedding and

it's not even a simple wedding. It was

like a legit wedding. It is like a

humiliation rituals. Yeah. Genuinely,

it's it's so embarrassing for me. And I

don't know what's worse is him cheating

and on me for over a year having a

different persona from the man that I

thought he was.

And I and or the fact that everyone NYP

saw it know his angage and then one tell

me or the fact that right he's still

denying it until now and he refuses to

take accountability for his actions. He

refuses to admit that he was cheating on

me.

Calls me crazy for saying that he's

cheating on me and then gives me an

excuse for every reason that I have. Who

do you think made me crazy?

Who do you think made me crazy? got some

comments say like my personality crazy.

Maybe that's why maybe I'm crazy because

everything he's doing behind my back and

lying to my face. I don't understand.

Why can't you just break out with me?

Honestly, I didn't think the cheating

was that bad to a point where he was

cheating publicly in front of

everybody's face behind my back. I blame

myself for the crash out, but you guys

seen how hard I tried to give us keep us

together. You guys can read. You guys

seen the way he lies to me.

I don't want to say anything else.

except for this situation.

But yeah, I'm selling my wedding

planning book for $30. Got insert my

reviews here. This is a list of what it

includes the wedding cuz I was planning

this wedding for months. And I think

that my how in planning the wedding

shouldn't be going to waste. Hence why

I'm selling the book. And I just want to

say thank you to everybody who's been

supportive of me and sending me

encouragement. I may not reply to

everybody but it helps a lot given the

what this man did to me. It is very

painful for me but like I said I already

gave my all. He did this. So yeah,

thank you guys for watching.

Subscribe to me. Thank you

guys. I just edited finished the video

and I'ming right now because I had a tip

off that my fiance last year on 20

20th July to 21st July he booked

a hotel station with her for her

birthday. Her birthday was like I think

next two months or something but I think

it was an early I don't know he just

booked a hotel there and I literally

have the confirmation proof that he

booked a hotel there and I have our chat

which he was lying about.

So yeah, I don't

I actually don't know what to say.